How do you handle feeling like the black sheep of the family? I feel like I'm always the one getting yelled at and I just want to hurry up and get a job and an apartment.
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Miki10
ANSWERS: 3
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I understand what you are going through. Intentionally or unintentionally, our well meaning kin can sometimes hurt us, leaving us with a low self esteem. Just ignore (atleast try to) them and concentrate on your strengths. And we need to remember that however hard we may try, it is not possible to make everybody happy (It is not necessary either). Once they see you more comforatable and confident with yourself, they may even start seeing you in different light. Just take things in your stride, am sure things will work out fine.
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its cant be a good feeling, a lot of families use one member, to be a scapegoat, just bide your time, and when you can move on, prove them all wrong! Good luck
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I'm in the same position. I'm constantly yelled at, blamed, etc. etc. For college, I am going to the opposite side of the country, so I can leave all the crap behind.
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