Tell him he needs to get his ass off the couch and go to the movies with you! Or watch a movie at home... go over to a mutual friends house and play poker, shoot pool, darts, bowling. Go get a midnight breakfast or coffee at local bookstore/cafe that's open late. I'm not fron RI so i don't know what there is to do, but the main thing is that you get out of the house and have fun TOGETHER. My husband pays XBOX... i don't get on him too much about it becuase I know he needs it to wind down and have fun, but he also spends a ton of time with me and if i ask him to come to bed, he does. You have to compromise and let him have his Call of Duty 4. Read a magazine or do your nails while he plays. The catch is that he has to make time for you. He may be a homebody, not into partying, or he doesn't like crowds or your friends in particular. I'm just guessing. There is nothing wrong with you going out and having fun with friends as long as you are responsible, and act the same way you would if he were with you. If he trusts you,( and there aren't any past mishaps that would make him feel insecure ) he shouldn't have a problem with you hanging out with your friends. Talk to him and ask him what he's worried about when you go out. Hopefully you can find some middle ground.