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  • I would recommend just coming out to him. if he truly is your friend, he won't care at all of your gay. it shouldn't affect your freindship. but as for confessing love for him, you should gauge his reaction first to you coming out. Watch how he takes it, then maybe wait awhile and tell him. Hope this helps!
  • Being gay isn't wrong hun. It is just one of the many things that make you , you. I can't comment on your situation with Cameron but i wish you the best of luck. Maybe one day you will be ready to tell the world that you are gay, maybe you won't,either way is fine. Remember to keep your own council and what makes you a good or bad person are only the choices you make in life, not the things you have no control over. :)
  • so then, what was your question? what do you WANT to do? has he ever bashed gays verbally in front of you? has he known anyone gay before? by the way, it sounds like your town is scary. sucks. :( what would happen to you?
  • Tough break dude, but I guess thats what happens if you hide stuff. That sort of thing has happened to me with a buddy who I didn't know was gay (I'm straight), it was all a bit embarassing when he made his smooth move ;o) I felt a bit like he was being dishonest with his freindship but then I knew he couldn't help it (I'm obviously so irresistable that I can turn men, joke ;o), anyway we are still really good freinds so its no big deal. I've felt like that with girls who were friends so I know how hard it can be. My advice - get really drunk, try your luck, if it goes horribly wrong pretend you didn't mean it? Not the best advice I've ever given but you never know.
  • Where's the question here? If you're looking for advice, there's a ton to give. You need to start by accepting yourself... by loving yourself and coming out. If you can't do it where you live, then you should go somewhere that you can be yourself. You will not have a successful love relationship while closeted. It will always be a life lived from fear of discovery.

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