If it's not love, what is it? Can stop thinking about this woman, the way she acts, talks, looks, dresses, smiles, touches her hair, way her hair smells, color of her eyes, shape of face, neck, etc... She is driving me wild, and she's married. What to do?
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mrtoolman
ANSWERS: 13
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Best thing to do mate is to let her know how you feel (obvioulsy without her husband knowing) and then just sit back and wait. You cannot do much more than that, if you do nowt then you will always wish you had done something. How can you be sure she doesn't feel the same about you??? I have know someone for 11 years and never knew that he fancied me (I am a girl by the way) I wish he had told me at the time - I am now with someone - how different things could have been if he said something. You won't regret saying something - you will regret saying nothing! Good luck - By the way, what makes you think it isn't love?
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You view this woman like a Ferrari in a public parking lot. You can stand back and appreciate her from a distance. To put your hands on her, try to get in and go for a ride would be something you could be arrested for. Learn early in life that another man's wife is more precious than any sports car on earth and although you cannot be sent to jail for messing with another man's woman, the end result could be even worse.
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It's lust,and you do nothing in this case.
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It is probably infatuation. It is possible that it is love, depending on how well you know her, but the odds say it is just infatuation.
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It's not love - it's infatuation. What you should do is not ruin her marriage. If it's meant to be, she'll come to you.
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I agree with worzel. You should tell her how you feel. Be honest with her and then at least you'll know that she knows exactly where you stand. Then the "ball is in her court" so to speak. Think of what you have to lose compared to what you have to gain. All the best to you.
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Do nothing...........she's married.
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its called lust!! don't do nothing, respect the fact that she is married.
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I'll tell you EXACTLY what this is: She's someone else's WIFE and therefore NOT something you have any business interfering with. Stay away. 'nuff said.
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It's not love, it's infatuation. BIG difference.
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From the way you described her, its physical. You like her physicaly. You need to take firm steps and move on. For her and your sake.
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You find your own woman who isn't married. And it's LUST, not love.
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If you really care about her..then do nothing...she is married. Don't make her life difficult for your interests. She has already made her choices.
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