u should talk to him about it and try to figure out if there is a certain problem that could be fixed. maybe he's bored, maybe his feelings have changed, maybe he thinks its his fault, maybe ur just in a rut! if its something that can't be solved through talking then why don't u go to a sex therapist? they would help with communication and give u tips and pointers on how to revamp ur sex life!

I had the same problem. I thought it was me and tried to read up on been a better wife when we make love. It's NOT the case. It was not me! It was him. The day after our 6th anniversary, he asked me to changed his cell phone #. So the next day,I looked at his call history and almost died! He was calling another lady for ONE year EVERY DAY and texts her EVERY DAY. It's just not one call, it's Obsessively! He would call her like 15x a day and she would call him etc. We've been married for 6 years and our daughter is 5. He cheated on me in 2005, took me a while to rebuild the trust. Supposely he said nothing happened, that she fell in love with him and he has not feelings for her. Still I am very hurt and a part of me is GONE. I am not the same person. For the past year, I thought it was me that's why we do not have sex. We are still together; I've decided to give it another shot but scared because it did not just happened once but TWICE! I am scared I will get hurt again and feel like I am so weak at times to stay w/ a person like that. If I were you, I would definitely look at signs and see if there's not another lady he's sneaking around with. It's better to find out now than later like me.

I am so sorry to hear that and really feel for you. I was in the same situation and still in a way. For my bday, Valentine, even our 6th anniversary we did not have sex either!! He said it's because we are always arguing, but it turns out he was cheating and lieing behind my back. :( My heart goes out to you!! You really need to ask him honestly about the lack of sex. Guys always want sex more than woman, it's on their mind 24/7.