My gf has wet the bed a few times and I dont know what to do. I dont want to embarass her any more or make her feel bad. should I get rubber sheets or plastic pants for her to wear to bed ? or somthing else
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It depends, how often does she do it? If its often then seek medical advice as there may be something serious causing it. If it is once or twice a year then just put up with it! We all have accidents, she just has it a little more than you. Also, think about the situation when she does do it, is she drunk? Is she scared? Have the two of you just had sex? ect ect ect If there is something common to all the times she does it then that is probably the cause.
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I think anything you do is likely to embarrass her. Presenting her with plastic pants would be beyond that. You would think that her knowing that you could be sleeping in her urine would be enough. I would eventually move to a bed by myself if that was the case in which I'd hope she'd take matters into her own hands.
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I would have that checked out. I mean, that's not normal unless she's five, in which case that's even more disgusting. Seriously, there is probably something medically wrong with her if she does it often.
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Has she recently had a child?The muscles which control urination in the vagina can become weak from a number of things.Childbirth being one she needs to go in for an exam.Unless like i said she has had a baby then this is normal.My wife God love her! but if she gets to laughing really hard will start to leak:)yes maybe gross but life is gross.
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I think we are all missing the point. If she has wet the bed a few times with you as a post puberty teen or older, then this is probably NOT the first time. I wet my bed almost nightly until I was about 13, then going through puberty it diminished considerably. But it never stopped entirely. I still wet the bed more than occasionally. It is what it is. I would talk to her about it candidly. This will not embarrass her-since once she wet the bed with you her "secret" was out in the open. I don't think it is your responsibility to show up with diapers or rubber pants for her. She has probably been there growing up and will deal with it in her own way. But certainly you should protect your bed with a rubber sheet or some such thing. They make very discrete waterproof bed pads these days, so this should not be a big deal.
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You should wet the bed too and see what her response is because it is probably the one she thinks is best.
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Just let her know it turns u on. I had my first adult relationship type girlfriend sit on my lap and pee her jeans before we did it. She told me that she had never felt closer.
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Rubber sheets and plastic pants definitely seems like jumping the gun. Talk to her about it in a non-judgmental way. If this just started happening, she should be evaluated by a doctor to look for a treatable physical cause. If it's something that has happened to her periodically her whole life, the two of you should try to identify the triggers and avoid them.
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