Men, would you support your wife or girlfriend (financially and emotionally) if you could? Women, would you want your man to support you, or do you prefer working?
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Yes, I'd want to support my S/O to the fullest extent possible, especially when there are children in the future, hehe. Raising the children is the most important job of any parents, and mothers do it so much better then fathers. LOL
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Personally, I like working. But seeing as I'm always in school, he tends to be the 'breadwinner' and that's okay with me. The roles have switched and I'm sure when children come along, I'll be the one at home. I tend to be a very independant person and don't like 'being supported' but we make it a team effort. There is more to be done that just earning the money to support a household :)
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I wouldn't have any issues at all with it. With only one income things would be tight but that's not something that would make me unhappy.
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I would do both. I want to help my s/o with what I can and shall the day come when he is sick or not working, I can take care of him. :D Also, I don't mind getting taken care of. If he wants to then it's ok with me.
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I do. When we decided to have our son we agreed that I would be the one who worked and she would stay home and take care of him for a while. She'd worked all of her life until that point, and even served as a SGT in the Army with a very demanding position, so she deserved a good long break.
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i plan on it, she wants to go to school and get her degree and work parttime and i told her i would support her. I dont care, i love her and could care less what she wants to do :P im making enough ;) I also support her emotionally too, im always there for her and always will be, she can talk to me and come to me with anything :)
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I was raised to believe that a man should be a source of strength and support for a woman. But unfortunately, I was also raised by a woman who allowed a man to completely ruin her life and potential by knocking her up and falling very short in the shoulder to lean on dept. It depends on the man. If they too are raised to feel more like a man by being a pillar for her heart, then its fine, but it is useless for a dependent woman to fall pray to a man who uses her need to manipulate and destroy her to feel better about himself. For that reason and that reason only, I feel that a woman should always be independent and get herself educated just in case Mr. Wonderful doesn't pan out. I think that most women have that prince charming ideal in the back of their hearts and minds, but only the foolish ones buy into thinking that all men want to support them. Now days, I think men have succumb to pimp mentalities and are all looking to cash in on independent, successful women.
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I would always want his support, which doesn't necessarily mean financially. I do enjoy working, but I would not have a problem with him making more money or wanting to support me. It would depend on what would be best for both of us.
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No problem I do not want to be judged or my achievements counted in financial terms....plus if I have it..it is hers...and not just money
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