My girlfriend went out to a club last night and my friend caught her kissing another guy (a co-worker). I have finished it with her but she says she was so pissed to even realise what she was doing and she is really sorry do i take her back?
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I would not.
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No Way
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She says she dosn't know how it happened. But my friend said they were kissing for quite a long time. She said I did not even cross her mind cause she was apparently "so drunk". If i take her back im only going to ban her from drinking, clubbing and make her quit her job. So....
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Hey Bro, Its a tough situation hey, actually it sucks. But i personally beleive that she is lying and using being pissed as a way out. And I'll tell you no matter how pissed you might think you are, if you not passed out you can remember. So Bro from what i can see is that you are to good for this chick, tell to F@#k Off and you go find someone that will respect you and treat you like a king hey bro. If she really cares for you bro it wouldn't ever happened. You have done the right thing, it might not seem like it now, but when your with the right girl and you relise that you would have beenwasting you time with this one you'll be one happy bro, bro. Remember keep you head up stay strong and don't look back.
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Hon the only thing shes pissed & sorry for is getting caught! If she was your girlfriend why was she going to a club without you anyway? Chances are if she was kissing a coworker its because she told them to meet her there because they are flirting with each other at work. Give her the boot & find you someone faithful. Good luck
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I do love her though and she is the most beautiful girl I have ever known. If my friend had not caught her I know she would not of told me.
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I said to her when we spoke in the nicest way. If you should find another guy, measure him against me and if he is equal or greater be with him. But if he is not accept nothing less and she cried and said I never will... she says she knows she f**ked up etc etc
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i have been in that situation, i was the girl who kissed another, i honestly had no idea what i was doing, i was pissed and also had my drink spiked. one of my bf's mates saw us. i dont remember it happening but when she (his mate) confronted me the next day i felt so bad, i told him straight away. he forgives me for it but the guilt is still there.. i believe he would be happier with someone else but i left that choice up to him.. he believed me 100% and we both feel that the relationship is as strong as ever. take her back only if you believe what she says and if your heart tells you.. if you dont 100% believe her let it be and find someone else otherwise you will be miserable and always wondering what she is up to.. good luck
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No. It will just happen again and again. I know from experience. This may not be the first time, just the first time she was caught. I'm sorry but that is the truth. If you can forgive her and truly believe that she will change, I say why not take her back? Or you can end it with her for a while, and then start over? Maybe the time she spends without you will make her realize that she needs you and will never cheat on you again.
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P.s. Being drunk is never a good excuse to cheat. She shouldn't have been getting drunk without you around anyway.
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Kick her to the curb. Go find someone else who will respect you. If you take her back now, she can't respect you since you'll be a pushover. Be a man and walk away. Have a great fantastic life with a chick who will treat you properly. As a bonus, that will really make her feel like crap. ;)
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Make her get a tat of your name on her wrist so you know she loves you. If not, don't.
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Heck no. Be glad it happened before things got more serious than they already were.
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This is where cheating becomes messy, because personally i think when someone, girl or guy, gets away with it, then you just get walked all over for being a push over...Also your relationship, im sorry to say, will not work. Because the trust is broken and i think over all, it is easy to trust, but when the trust is gone, the relationship is gone. So personally as u can see, my answer is don't go back, because you become a push over in the relationship and the trust is gone. Everyime she goes out, you'll be worried she'll get "too drunk" and not know what shes doing. Fuck...please...the dumbest excuse in the world, it makes me so angry. People who use that excuse are honestly stupid so i guess stupid people make stupid mistakes. I know its hard to do, but move on. In the end it feels good to be the one on top, trust me...
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(Assumign she claimed she was drunk) In many cases being drunk doesn't make you do things you would NEVER do, being drunk allows you to do things you might WANT to do but couldn't do on a regular day. There are special cases, but with this one, it takes two to tango. Even if he kissed her she obviously kissed back. I personally wouldn't trust her enough to get back with her and it will take a toll on your relatinship. She seemed to be pretty fimilar with this person and sees them frequently enough to keep the relationship ging behind your back. If you want to give it ONE more shot, then by all means do it. But it's not the safest move and you'll probably regret it. Remember though, if you take her back (and she's lying) she'll continue to do it over and over again. You're better off with another girl who can respect you and keep herself in check (alcohol included).
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No! She'll do it again.
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iHjfDZDvPmk
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Yes, take her back. People make mistakes sometimes. give her one more shot if she fails drop her so fast
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Of course she was pissed.... she got caught! If she gave a shit about what she was doing, she wouldn't have done it in the first place.
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