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This is not a healthy relationship. It sounds like he's too self-involved to notice your pain and respond, and you're too much in pain to see clearly. I strongly recommend you just end it. When you're doing well on your own, healthy, stable, looking to your own future and feeling your own value, the right person will come along who appreciates that and wants to share their life with you. That's much more like real love than all of the on-again, off-again heartbreak and clinging that's going on in this "relationship". Nobody else can make you whole and healthy, you have to work that out by yourself -- regardless of whether you have someone else in your life or not. When we start thinking someone else is the key to our happiness, life becomes a very dangerous place: especially if that person is unstable.
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You just asked the same question 2 hours ago, just worded it differently. I am rather confused because initially you stated you were a man, married for 19 years and going through a pretty rough divorce, with a child involved. Also stated your "Wife" held a Ph.d and wanted more money because she took retail job. Please explain the truth if you really want answers. Thanks,and good luck..
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