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give him a second chance if he really diserves it.. and if he breaks ur heart again, then you break up with him for good
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i agree with the answer above. everyone deserves a second chance. but only get back with him if you KNOW he is truly sorry.
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Once a cheat always a cheat, why open your heart for another hurt like that. A leopard doesnt change his spots. Move on your worth more than that.
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You can consider giving him a second chance to earn your trust back (he has, after all, destroyed it), but please do not move in with him until you are certain he is trustworthy (because his actions have consistently and verifiably demonstrated it over an extended period). Your heart isn't a toy with which he should play games.
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He obviously cares more about his own feelings than yours. If he loved you he would never have doing something that would hurt you. Don't move in with him and don't take him back. It's not worth the heartache.
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I dont think I can help but I'm also someone who's been cheated on twice ,which sucks moving in with your bf is probably not a good idea im living with my gf and their are various times when i feel like I shouldn't be with her because i have been hurt. its difficult to move on when your living with someone. trust is a big issue if you cant trust someone how are u going to be worry-free? that feeling wont come quick the cheating issue with me happened months ago & I still do not trust her. sorry to say but the cheating can happen again because of the fact the cheater knows that there's a good chance they can get away with it.
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Second chances do not apply to people that cheat...don't even try it. I've been there and done that. My boyfriend cheated on me, left me for someone else and one month later was back knocking on my door. What did I do? I gave him a second chance--HUGE mistake...a year later he did the same exact thing, and this was actually 5 days ago...the heartbreak is harder and the pain is worse...don't do it to yourself, you are worth more. Go by the saying: "Cheat on me once, shame on you. Cheat on me twice, shame on me". You're just setting yourself up to be hurt again if you let him back into your life. I strongly warn you against it. Guys don't change, TRUST me, i know first hand.
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