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  • Neither is better if you feel unfulfilled. Don't settle for "okay", wait for "just right".
  • The way I figure it is...Eventually the sex will wear off and wont be quite as important. There is nothing that says you cant teach an old dog new tricks. What is important to you? A shallow romp in the hay? Or someone who really does love you?
  • The real question is: How much time does a person spend "cutting meat" each day? Is 20 minutes of good sex a day a trade off for being treated well for 23 hours 40 minutes?
  • If it were me in that situation I would have 2 options: 1. Teach 'good sex' man how to treat you outside the bedroom. 2. Teach 'unattractive man' how to treat you inside the bedroom. Either way, you are going to have to be able to express what you want/need. I am in agreement with mistje, a relationship has to be fulfilling or it just won't work. You can either wait for 'just right' or you can create 'just right'. Either way, communication is paramount. Good luck!
  • I would take them both and have all your needs met.
  • If youre asking the question, I suspect you are too shallow to really care or analyze your values yourself. You already know which you care about more. A problem a lot of women have is the inner battle between the good family girl they know they should be, and the inner skank they really are.
  • My opinion is take the unattractive man. You can always get toys and whatnot to make up for his "member". His love will probably last a lifetime which is worth the "small comings".
  • Best would be the one I loved and could see having a future with...the issues can be worked on.
  • Well if neither come close to satisifying you, maybe you should find someone who does.
  • the unattracive man. why? cus it's not like he can't be taught sex. and size really doesn't matter, trust me. some of the smaller ones are more willing to please, and regular sex isn't all I have needs for. lol
  • What I don't hear in the question is how you treat them, so I assume from this that you don't care about either of them, but only about getting your needs met and being treated like a queen. Consequently I think the "attractive man" is probably right in treating you the way he does, and the "unattractive man" deserves someone better, so I wish him well.

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