If you were willing to give without receiving, it would be an expression of your devotion. Having said that, I think she is being unreasonable to expect that you will. That is very selfish IMHO. You're right, a relationship should be based on the desires of both parties. I'm not sure I'd suggest leaving her over this, but you may want to consider how she is going to treat you in other topics if this is what you get from her about this.

Maybe with a little time and patience she would be willing to reciprocate? Sometimes making the extra effort on her behalf is all that is needed.

Give her what she wants, no hesitation there to show your commitment. BUT when you're too good in giving blowjob (after a few months eating her), refuse to give her bj unless she gives it to u once in a while. If she really like your mouth work, she'll be willing to do it just to receive bj later on. For me honestly, I like to give bj to a girl, and don't care if I did not get any.

Some people just dont like giving oral sex. I give oral and dont recieve cause my bf doesnt like giving it, I like getting it, but I respect him and wouldn't make him do something he doesnt wanna do! He makes it up to me in other ways. If you feel shes being unreasonable then dont give it, she should also respect that you believe in giving and taking and this whole 'if you loved me' shit is emotional blackmail tell her to cut it the fuck out... It makes her sound like a self centered bitch.

I love to receive, and I never give. I make that clear at the outset. And I don't see anything wrong with that. He's free not to pursue the relationship.

I love giving it, and I love getting it, but if a girl pulled that card on me, I'd be pretty pissed. She sounds like a selfish cunt. The fact she expects you to do something she wouldn't do. I'd bail, this is just the start of listening to every order she gives you friend.

Elfuego ; I share your pain!!!! If she isn't willing to accommadate your needs for oral as well, I say quit giving in to her needs and urges for oral... As long as she's selfish and unwilling to give, then she shall not receive.. Simple as that.

I have, and I enjoy giving head. It doesn't matter if my partner reciprocates. But, to ask someone to give you and not being willing to give yourself. That's not right. Your girl is selfish.

I am used to give without receiving. If a girl does not want to give, you have to respect her decision. Most girls I know only want to receive. From all of my girlfriends I had very few gave any kind of sex to although I was giving to them frequently and as often as they liked oral sex. And I still have girlfriends who have nothing with me at all except that I give to them oral service when they like it or want to have it. But this does not change anything at our friendship I have with them. You will have to learn that you can not always expect a service in return if yu are giving generously. I like to give and expect never any return. But giving the ladies and girls a good oral service givesto me their respect and friendship in return.

Even if some people are rating me down, I won't change my opinion. Giving service to the genitals of a woman or a girl with my mouth is for me a matter of friendship and appreciation of the woman or the girl and I do my very best to pleaede her as much and as long as I can. There are probably more women and girls who love to receive oral service than males and why should not give to a woman/girl oral service if she likes it. It is also true that quite a lot of these women never would give oral service to a man. But I never expected a woman or a girl to give me oral service because I don't like it basically. A completely happy, relaxed and grateful woman or girl after a good oral service given by me can be more satisfying to me as any kind of sex. Women and girls use to be quite respectful if they get good oral service and as most women or girls want to have it for a long time usually I am no longer that much horny that I would like to have real sex with her. Never I would expect a woman to give me the same in return what I give to her. They like my tongue and so they can have it. Maybe you can think that these women are selfish at first sight but I can say, they are reallynot. They just dislike to give oral sex, while they love to receive it at the same moment. This makes nobody selfish at all. It is just a different female point of view which I can understand and I never had the feeling that those women were regarding me as inferior just because they had me only for oral sex. Just the contrary I woud say. They like me more and give me more respect than to any other male because I am not demanding and beause I do expect nothing from them. They give to me their sympathy, their best feelings and usually their whole friendship. So, I am not disappointed if a girl or lady wants me only to go down for her. And if a woman r a girl only wants to have as she likes I think it is not selfish but intelligent.