I know a guy who I just have this connection with. He's so fun, handsome and he thinks I'm fabulous....needless to say, he's gay. Why are gay men sooooooo perfect? Why can't straight men be like that?
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That is a good question Saramonster. My answer is that they don't care about what other people think. They are just happy-go-lucky guys who know what respect is and they know how to have a good time without offending anyone. I also happen to have a gay friend who is superb in several ways. We do connect but it's like a twisted brother/sister relationship (he has a very dirty mind) to give you a perspective. I think gay guys were put on the earth to show straight men how to act and to tease us ladies.
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Because, that would be too easy. I'd give you a better answer, but I ask myself that quite often.
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Sod's Law, isn't it? I can honestly say I've never run into a guy who has had that problem. Guys and lesbians just don't have that sort of connection I guess.
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Some are. You just haven't met me yet.
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It takes time for a lot of guys to see the light. Sometimes they don't get it at all. That's why a lot of older guys get the girls.
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I think when you take the element of any possible sexual connection out of the picture it makes people on both sides of the equation a lot more relaxed and forthcoming with who they truly are- no need to put on airs in the hopes of a relationship. The dynamics are different. There are straight men who will be like that but it might take longer to reveal itself;)
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Because women really want other women? If you can dress them up as men so much the better? "Let's Play Dolls!"
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Thanks. :)
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Erm.. sorry... :/ I'm not sure, but perhaps because they aren't in any way interested in you other than as a friend, so it doesn't affect their attitude towards you
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Straight men can be like that but you will be sacraficing other aspects like masculinaty. While a gay man is truley a man you will never be treated by a gay man the way you would if they had been straight. There would be something missing and you would eventually notice it. Some times you may want your man to flex his dominant traits some times otherwise you may end up like my friend who I feel is a straight gay man. He is also a totally push over. You can tell by the way his wife treats him she has absolutly no respect for him being a man.
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we can't because if we were so handsome and perfect perfect we wouldn't need women!
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So how many gay guys does it take to change a lightbulb?
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Because women are always more interested in the men they can't have....
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i think its because there is no sexual influence on his attitude. therefor u open up to him more because you know his intentions are not bad. generally he would be seen to you as a friend in the same way you have girlfriends. obviously most women would love a guy that would do all the stuff they like to do (i.e. a gay man) but then again the clue is in the title. . gay. . so u might want to consider a sex change and some facial hair. . that might just make u his type... =]
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Many straight men are like that. They just don't happen to stay single very long.
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Because God has a sick sick sense of humor. I often wonder about the differences of men and women and think "What the hell?"
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But sara, there are a fiew streight men like that out there, just take your time and you will find one just like ME... be patient, I did'nt get married till I was 35.
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Gay men are perfect cause they are like hanging with another girl but when u want someone to throw you down and get nasty then you need us beastly, sarcastic, and uncaring men. Also it a straight male secret we all have to piss off our s/o and make them love us and hate us at the sametime.
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Some of us are. We just happen to be married. All fun aside, part of the reason why you don't see a "prfect straight guy" might be because you have different expectations about what a straight guy (who can find himself on the relationship ladder as opposed to the friends ladder) should be. Do you always find yourself attracted to the same kind of guy as relationship material? How is that kind of guy different from your gay friend (aside from the obvious orientation)? Do you find yourself attracted to those differences? If so, why? This is a great question to kick off a whole series of questions to help you decide what you want as you move on in life.
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We are able to see around all the flaws they carry around.We just see them in all their fabulousness. And you know just as well as I do,gay men are Fabulous! We look at sraight men in a completely different way.
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