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  • She may be suffering from buyers remorse. I would recommend caution, and not hurrying into anything.
  • I'd be thinking "what's her agenda?" Unless I got some feedback from her that made sense to me I wouldn't go on holiday with her. Ask yourself if she is worth getting on an emotional roller coaster. Where does the new boyfriend fit in? Ask the questions.
  • Thanks for your comments and here is some more info.. I asked her if she found this weird she said agreed it was. She told me that of all the people she knows i am the one who she would most like to holiday with. ( we travelled Europe together last year). As regards to the new boyfriend she says she doesn't want to lie to him and she will consider how he feels..she may tell him she may not..she is still thinking about it... She asked me Wednesday last and told me to think about it..next time i am in contact she may have changed her mind..
  • WOW? you have reason to question that!! If you accepted the fact that you are friends, and nothing more, and came to this agreement together, then maybe she really does value your friendship, and doesnt see it as a big deal. Some people can date for ever, and the relationship evolves to really good friends. She may want to keep you in her life, but has realized that her feelings for you have become more of a brotherly-sisterly type love. If you dont feel the same, and would be uncomfortable going, then decline. I am not implying that this invitation was proper, I am only throwing a thought to you. Right or wrong--hope it helps!
  • Sounds like she wants to play both of you. Be careful.
  • She wants the best of both worlds! I don't think the vacation idea is a good one. That just isn't fair to you.I bet the boyfriend wouldn't like it either. She isn't being honest with herself of with either of her guys.
  • Go on the holiday, get her to pay for everything and pick someone up ASAP once you are there!

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