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  • How about this: Just after you hug her, turn your head and give her a quick kiss on the cheek. It's a start. But no, it's bad form to ask a girl if you can kiss her, unless you do it in some sort of goofy, endearing way. You will know when the time is right. Generally, she will let you know with signals, unless she is as nervous about it as you are. If you are nervous or uncomfortable around her, maybe you should figure out why that is. Ask the hard questions: Do I feel unworthy? Do I feel ugly? Unloveable? Am I not popular enough? We all lie to ourselves. And the lies won't go away unless we challenge them.
  • Make sure your teeth are clean, and your breath is fresh. Then, you could say..."I've been thinking about this a while now...and I really want to kiss you." Then, just smile. Unless she's totally terrified at the idea, or overwhelmed with some sort of specific taboo from a religious point...I would bet...she says something ENCOURAGING or leans over and kisses YOU!
  • next time you hug, just say "hey, can i get a kiss goodbye?" she will kiss you and skip off to class or hatever.and voila!all the other kisses will just start pouring in as your comfort level rises. and just so you know,almost every relatonship will start with this initial kissing hesitation.but somebody has to make the first move. something else:almost everyone i've made out with in my life has kissed a completely different way. so don't stress it.all kisses feel nice depending on the setting.
  • find out the combo on her locker and leave some roses inside for her to discover on her own make her friends jealous, next time she sees you kiss should be know problem
  • Just do it, she's probably waiting for you to be man enough to do it.
  • Just surprise her with a kiss one day while you hug. This should be a very good start and it would also make her feel amazed because you suprise. She might even want to kiss you too but is too shy.
  • Several views to take on this one, son... Option 1... Use the 80/20 rule... When the time seems right, move in 80% of the distance with strong eye contact and a slight lip pucker. Let her choose to come the other 20%. This way you aren't forcing yourself on her. Of course... she could just stare at you and leave you hanging... Very hard on the self confidence. Option 2... (I used this one with great success). If you are hugging, slowly pull your head back, while dragging your cheek across hers... She will either pull away, or rock her head in your direction... If you get the rock, you'll be smooching like a guormi in a giant mudpuddle. Option 3... Ask... But I warn that it will take some of the "magic" out of the kiss.
  • just kiss her might be she also wants the same....
  • My answer is Nitroducks Option 2. I've never done it any other way.
  • what ever you do dont just kiss her she will think you are just throwing yourself all over her. wait tell you two are in the right mood. try a romantic movie, but not a chick-flick. Or you could try to find out what her favorite thing or place to eat and try to make romantic or at least realy nice.
  • I keep thinking you have buck teeth and talk like Huck Finn, but if the feeling is not there, don't do it. Kissing should be honest, and I don't think it hurts to try. If you "slap 1 on her" and she slaps you back, you've learned your lesson, one way or the other.
  • man im telling you right now KIIIIISSSS HER unless you think shes scared kiss her trust me she want you to grow some balls and have the guts to kiss her man im telling you do it but at the end of the day though
  • You should do what your heart tells you to do ^-^
  • well. I would just kiss her. I have never had problems kissing people. I kissed my bestfriends older brother yesterday...
  • first of all how old are you ? and are you sure she is your girlfriend and not just a friend who happens to be a girl ?
  • dont ask her or not gonna get it. try this. next time you have a quiet moment, kiss around her neck for a bit then hold her face towards yours and go for the kiss there. always make sure your face and her face are close together. also try running your fingers through her hair. if she smiles then she wants it
  • EITHER WAY IT WOULD STILL BE SEXY BUT YOU HAVE TO DO IT SEXY THO. I WAS NERVOUS TOO BUT HE TOOK THE LEAD SINCE I DIDNT KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT KISSING. I THINK YOU SHOULD TAKE IT SLOW DONT DO IT TO FAST YOU MIGHT BITE HER LIPS OFF. MY KISS WENT SO DAMN FAST I DIDNT EVEN KNOW WHEN IT STARTED. BUT HE WAS A GOOD KISSER BUT HES NOT BETTER THEN MY BOYFRIEND NOW.
  • Ask her if you're nervous. My boyfriend asked me and it was kind of chivalrous, I liked it a lot. Just give her room to say "No" or "Not yet". Don't ask like you're going to do it either way, just be completely honest and it'll work out.
  • yea dude i feel the same way. i have this same situation at school. ive been reading ur comments and im going to take their advice. if u plan on kissing her, then ask for a kiss goodbye. thats what im going to do when me and my gf's relationship gets stronger.
  • aight bro this wat u gotta a do when u leave say peace and gesture for a kiss in the moth not making out just a quick 1 and if u wanna make out and crap man u gota do it at u friends house or a party cause in school u dont feel confortable niether does she or secure so best place is in private
  • Just go for the cheek or the forehead, that's an easier place to start :) +5

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