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by Happy to be me on March 20th, 2009
lol Have you?
by DreAnna on November 8th, 2008
Yes :)
by Jane on August 8th, 2008
no but i kinda want to . sounds fun
by C-Bunny Ninja BOC Princess on August 7th, 2008
Indeed. My boyfriend used to be a cop :)
by Larry on March 20th, 2009
Yes - my friend's wife and I have started to experiment with bondage – It’s Great
by Ladydivine on March 19th, 2009
Yes,when I am cuffed to the bed.Awesome!
by knotcrafter@yahoo.com on November 22nd, 2008
Yes, as a prelude to using rope. Handcuffs are handy (pardon the pun) for abduction scenarios but should used sparingly due to their basic discomfort and possibility of injury, even when double-locked.
by fatherof2 on November 22nd, 2008
yes we have used hand cuffs and we use ropes also
by Violet on May 6th, 2009
YES! This past weekend! With a blind fold too
by Seanzie is smiling again on November 16th, 2008
ive got sinch chains and cuffs hanging on my wall!
Of course I do
by anonymous on November 12th, 2008
nice, i can only imagine how they could be used
by anonymous on November 8th, 2008
no but i would prefer they be used on me.
by TheOriginalTaterTotB4Tjobaxter on August 7th, 2008
Yes I have, my soon to be ex was a cop! ;)
by Bsweet. on August 7th, 2008
no never.:-)+
by knotcrafter@yahoo.com on August 7th, 2008
Of course, but mostly as a "pre-tie" to hold the wrists while I bind the upper arms with rope, after which I'll replace the 'cuffs with rope. Good question, wish I had thought of it.
by love_master on May 6th, 2009
of course i love them
by Jonathan on May 6th, 2009
Many times, the ones with the fur and ones with velcro, lots of fun!
by alwayscurious on May 6th, 2009
No, but I would do it.
by Liz-Clayton on May 2nd, 2009
yes
*blushes and runs away*
by Jonathan on March 28th, 2009
Yes but the gals really like the ones with fur
by doesnotmakesenseatall on May 6th, 2009
Once a person gets a taste of BDSM, or even a part of it, sex just is'nt the same any more. Try it.
by Anonymous on May 7th, 2009
Not yet.
by Babe488 on August 4th, 2009
Ive had them used on me wow was that ever a wonderful experience
by Anonymous on August 30th, 2009
Yes I have. Hundreds of times over 20+ years actually, although ~150 episodes were with one particular woman over a 6-month period. She had never thought about using handcuffs as part of foreplay until she asked me: "What arouses you most?" I told her and she found that she liked having me "under control," and also liked being helpless and ravished. Handcuffs became a regular and integral part of our sex lives. We would take turns cuffing, uncuffing, and recuffing each other multiple times in a given night. She never said no to using the cuffs -- cuffing me, or being cuffed by me. Other partners have not been quite as accommodating, however.
Now, though, I have found that I prefer rope. Cuffs are fast and easy, and they also look nice with the shiny metal. It's easy to make the cuffs not too tight and not too loose. I still have 4 sets of handcuffs and two sets of ankle cuffs (referring to metal police restraints).
But ropes are cheaper and much more versatile. Ropes also give a sense of compresssion that cuffs do not. Cuffs that are tight and compressing just plain hurt. Ropes can be very comfortable even if they are snug and tight. And once cuffs are on... they are on. Unless you're willing to break something, you can't just slip out of cuffs. I suppose that could be an advantage, being completely at your partner's mercy, with no hope for escape until he/she decides to use the key. But it just does not pay to actively struggle against handcuffs.
Struggling against rope ties, on the otherhand, is fun and rewarding. It gives you something physical and tactile and sensual to do, all the while remaining quite helpless. And of course it is possible to escape from rope ties without breaking anything. It may take a frustratingly and tantalizingly long time, but in fact that becomes part of the game. Saying to your partner (or having your partner say to you): "I'm not gonna do XXXXX no matter how much you beg... UNTIL you get loose! If you're still bound after 30 mintues, I'm just gonna leave!" can really amp up the arousal.
by love_master on May 11th, 2009
i haven't yet but i have handcuffed my gf
by TravNasty on May 10th, 2009
No i have not, but i have always wanted to ;)
by Mesia on May 10th, 2009
Lots of times.
by JulieK on March 24th, 2009
yea. loved it. but use a safe word that you will not be throwing out in the middle of sex. use padded or fuzzy handcuffs they dont leave much of a mark
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by Route 66Truckerman on April 1st, 2009
Nope. I never have. Yet.
by SoDifficult on April 6th, 2009