ANSWERS: 2
  • I hate to say it, but don't. He won't respect you. He didn't respect you before, he doesn't respect his current girlfriend. Not to judge him, but being a man, I know how he thinks. He's seeing you showing some interest in him, so he interprets that as "booty possibility." If men detect the slightest possibility for sex, they will never give up on it. One of my wife's married coworkers had a crush on her. She told him no, no, no, no, no. But she'd still talk to him on breaks and stuff, so he thought no meant "not now, maybe later." Not until she filed a complaint did he finally give up. Just cut this guy off. Move on. You're worth more than this.
  • He's getting an ego boost to know you still love and want to be with him. I think he's telling a big fat porky that the other girl is just a friend. It will hurt but the best thing is to cut this guy out of your life altogether. He's just getting a kick out of teasing you and I think it's all too obvious to him how you feel. I don't believe he's such a nice guy and you deserve better.

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