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Hi maddey65! Welcome to AB. THE BEST Q & A site of the web! Here are a few things to think about or consider: MAYBE he's gay? MAYBE he's already in a copmmitted relationship? At this particular time, MAYBE he's not interested in getting into any kind of relationsjp? THE ONLY way you're going to find out is to ask him. If he interests you that much, it's up to you to ask him. Your Q will either strengthen or break the current relationship. AND "there are other fish in the sea." Thanks for asking your Q! I enjoyed answering it! VTY, Ron Berue Yes, that is my real last name! Sources: Because you asked. Some personal observations and opinions. "THE University of Hard Knocks" also known as ("a/k/a") "life's valuable lessons" P.S. When times get tough, you get bored or you really need or want to do something different on your computer, won't you please come and visit the Sillyville Club? Simply type s-i-l-l-y-v-i-l-l-e in the box and click on the blue "GO" button! It's a terrific place! Very Truly Yours, Ron "THE Official Spokesman of Sillyville"
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You've answered your own question; he said he doesn't want a relationship. It sounds like you're just friends so unless you feel a connection coming from his side (it seems that there isn't one) then I wouldn't press the issue or you'll risk losing the friendship you have.
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start ignoring him and act like you dont care. when he wants to go out, you have other plans. sometimes you have to let men chase you for them to want you. it works most of the time. if it doesn't work you may need to move on.
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by the time you're 38 you WANT to be in a relationship and get married and have a family.. if he hasn't committed to you it just means he's watching out for and keeping an eye out on other potential girlfriends.. he's using you as a backup in case he can't get what he wants.. start dating other men and remember that you have a life of your own. this man isn't yours so stop revolving your life around him. find another man who wants you.. and when this friend of yours starts to take notice, turn your head away and stay faithful to your (will be) boyfriend. men love confidence, show confidence.
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I don't think you're being a very good friend. By wanting more than he wants from the friendship, you're risking losing him altogether. He says he doesn't want a relationship. That should be the end of it. You are old enough to know that not everybody you want will want you, too. It's part of life, and I think you should get over it. By the way, I think crying about it is a good idea. Let those feelings come. Not being wanted by someone you want hurts. Good luck.
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Well you say he's your friend, not your boyfriend or friend with benefit.
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