ANSWERS: 5
  • I'm very sorry that this happens to anyone in this world. Time is the key...it will heal everything. Don't be in a rush to start something new...go out...enjoy life...don't act like your nothing without him. And hello? He cheated...you shouldn't be feeling guilty when he went after someone else. Screw him! Everything will always turn out ok I can promise you that. The human heart is amazing...it can heal and love again. Be yourself...you were a person without him you know...it just goes to show that he wasn't the one for you. It took a little longer than usual but at least you are free to do what you please and find who really is your soul mate. Everything happens for a reason...and you will be ok...better than ok...you'll see. Don't look for anyone...let them find you. Good Luck!
  • he is obviously an asshole. You were with him a long time, where in he learned to manipulate you and control you. Yes, you will find someone, I'm glad you're going out, continue and have fun. Now go make yourself a drink.
  • It can take a couple of years. Whatever you do, don't listen to him - he's obviously jealous because he knows what he's missing and that he was a jerk to let you go.
  • What do you mean he shut you out? You've been broken up for months, and it appears you were right to do so. Stop trying to be "in" with him and move on with life. Emotions take time to heal, but you aren't going to get over him until you distance yourself and allow that chapter of your life to close. Reopening old wounds isn't going to help. It takes time, but will start to get better once you are ready to let go.
  • Everyone's different. I was with someone for 7 years and it took me about 10 months before I felt normal again. He did not cheat, but the break up was really hard on both of us. My saving grace was that we pretty much cut off contact for months at a time. It's been about 2 years since we broke up and I haven't heard from him in about 8 months.

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