ANSWERS: 5
  • You need to do what's best for you regardless of what's involved w the ex. If your happy where you are stay. If you find comfort elsewhere, sooner or later thats where you'll head out. Good luck Katespana! :)
  • It's really hard to let go of people we want to hold on to and if you have no choice but to do so, then i believe you will benefit from being close to the family and friends who know and love you. I am sure that whatever you decide to do, will be the right thing for you and i wish you well.
  • seems pretty clear to me what you want to do. you've tried now so do what you want to do.
  • However, i see, you've asked this question in July, i felt i need to write you. I'm in a kind of similar situation. I used to live in UK, and now i moved back 'home' 2 weeks ago. I had a long term on and off reltionship there, and i completely lost the ground under my feet without support in a 'foreign' country when i felt down. Guess, you know what i'm talking about. We can't put on everything, and we women need encouragament and warm cuddle sometimes (specially in a foreign country), and if our partners don't give us, THEN we need our family and friends around us. Isn't it? (Guess, he didn't give you too much support if at the end you were separated.) It's a big shame, cause people who change country/home for their love for their partner put more effort and romantic feelings in that relationship who just 'live through'. I'd love to talk with you about your feelings, how did you manage yourself after moving back, and how did you move on the experience, if you wouldn't mind. Best wishes! :)
  • Yes, you will need your family and friends during this time.... go for it, he is no longer your concern if you have given it all you can with no good results... it's your life, you live it... go!

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