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  • It sounds like she is in a rut and maybe a little depressed. Ask yourself when the relationship took this turn - was there something significant that happened that maybe she just can't shake off? Try surprising her instead of proposing to do things - sometimes the less we do the less we want to do. Take her on a surprise picnic or make a special meal. Don't quiz her about why she is with you - show her why you are there; tell her how you feel and ask her what she wants from the future - not from you but what she wants to work towards; a holiday or career move etc. Get her motivated by doing rather than suggesting....

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