If writing her a letter in order to restore a positive rapport didn’t work (and thus it's likely she threw it away after reading the name), will it work to send the letter to a mutual friend in order for them to forward it & make sure she reads it?
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Egao No Genki
ANSWERS: 3
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Dude give it up. Unless you want to get the same rep I got which is a stalker. Just let it go. She has made it known by ignoring your letter that she wants nothing to do with you. You can't force someone to be your friend if they don't like you anymore. You can apologize til you're blue in the face and she's still going to hate you if that is how she feels. Just back off of her and if it's meant to be for the two of you to be friends again it will happen when she is ready for it. In the meantime just move on and try to not let it bother you so much. The more you try and push the more she will just hate you even more than she already does.
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You need to ask the mutual friend to arrange a face to face meeting. If she refuses, the relationship is over, and it's time for you to move on.
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Right. I have to agree with 'asweetguy'...give it up. We mean no harm. However, you DO have to respect other people's feelings and decisions from which they feel and stand. If you were really a friend, you would allow it to cool down a little, and wait for a while. Chances are, you may run back into each other later down the line, and you never know what could happen then. Just give it a little time. Also, try being a friend back to this person. Don't you know that the more you're pushing yourself on this person, the more you are showing that person that you have no respect for their feelings? Friendship, like I've always been told, is a "2-way street" If you really wanna be their friend, back up, and allow them some breathing room and some space:)
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