you allow yourself to be treated like a doormat in hopes that he will probably change his ways. he'll continue to treat you like shit because you keep letting it happen. he won't change because he knows he got you wrapped around his finger. it'll start out verbal and will gradually turn into something physical. it won't get better if you continue to put up with his bullshit. if you're going to be in a relationship with him, then you need to stand up for yourself. i couldn't imagine letting someone treat me like shit. good luck in your decision.

You may be addicted to toxic relationships. Everyone deserves to be treated with respect but it sounds like you have a low self-esteem. I suggest you get some counseling.

Because you are allowing yourself to, and he's making it no better. I'm sure by now that he knows the routine that you & he play..he knows you'll come back, because you always do. Another reason you're probably still going back to him is because of the famous term "wishful thinking"..you're probably hoping that he will change. No sweetheart, he will NOT change. If he does, he's doing it for HIMSELF, and NO-ONE else. You should start to surround yourself with positive situations, and positive people. And stop asking people what it is that you feel you should do with this guy...because half of them that tells you what THEY would do are either a)telling you a bunch of non-sense to continue to watch you make yourself look stupid, or b)they may be in the same situation themselves. Talk to people and get advice from people that you KNOW love & care for you...because it will always be a jealous bitch in the crowd that is lovin' every minute of your pain...(and NO, I am in NO WAY trying to imply anyone on here that's giving this young lady advice, I'm speaking more about people that is in her "personal circle")... Good Luck sweets:)

i know you love him, and YOU want to be with him.I know because im walking in your shoes. and it is very very hard to leave him.why i dont know like they say. things you will take when your deeply in love. noone willever understsand the reason you love a man. the way you do who treats you so badly.because they dont know the full story from the begining. he maybe was the man of your dreams for the first 5yrs. now he is that man you need to leave and dont know how to takt the steps to get away.because you know his loveing side.but if you feel like i do.not important unloved.not sexy,and so on you need to get out fast.i still have to take depression meds.for the pain.and im still trying to leave.but dont have the strenth.so dont judge no one.every one has done r is doing something foolish that they only no why thier doing it.while others say their dumb for doing it.but at th same time the ones saying your dumb are mostly the ones hurting.sono one can tell you what to do. you will no what do.you feel it in your heart when you realy ready to leave you will know and nothing will make you go back.most of all ask god to help you lead you out heal your hurt and clse all wounds and you will feel good and you will leave.i know i did it you can to.ok