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Have her get a boy friend!
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no , its unfortunate when a gay guy live out most of his life as a straight man because other people get hurt . But there is no turning back from that point and its not that he doent love her ...its just complicated to explain . He needs to stop living this lie and if loving someone is letting go , then that what she should do . Either that or cut his balls off for lying to her for 17 fucking years and waisting the best years of her life . I personally would opt for the latter....
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I really hate that for your friend, that is more common then most people know or are willing to accept. Just reassure your friend that its not her fault & be as supportive as you can be. I guess it would mostly be up to her & him if the marriage can be saved or if they want to save it for what ever reasons that he's stayed in it so far until he was ready to come out to her. She needs to go get checked for STDs first then go from there. I wish your friend lots of luck & so far she's lucky enough to have a friend like you who is concerned for her.
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If her husband is truly gay (meaning they haven't had sex for some time), then no, unless they remain married as a matter of convenience and love. If they have had sex throughout the marriage, then he's NOT gay, but probably BI, meaning he likes sex with both genders. Again, the answer would be no, unless... So, if she is willing to stay married to him, knowing he will wish to become involved with men (and she may, too), they would have to agree to an "open marriage", and define what is acceptable behavior to them as a couple. Otherwise, No... There's nothing that can save the marriage.
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Well, does that mean you've thought of some false ones?
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Get a sex change?
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They have been together 17 years...why should things change now...They can find a way to deal with his being gay...maybe he is just bisexual and still has relations with his wife. There are worse things than being gay or lesbian or straight even...as long as they are happy together and want to remain together then they should! I will be so glad when people quit labeling everyone this or that and just love one another as they are supposed to do. Jesus said in Matt. 22 to love your neighbour as yourself! almost everyone I know cannot truthfully do that and I don't know if I always do but I surely try!
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He robbed her a different life she could of had. I speak this because I found out after 25 years that my husband is gay. You can call it bi, you can call it gay... doesn't matter what is is. I am sure this was not what your friend wanted when she got married. I didn't. The frustration my husband went through was taken out on me, and I was blamed for alot of his anger, when all along, he was struggling with what he is. I was robbed of half my life! I only want him to be happy. If he had wished that for me, then he would have come to terms with it when he felt the feelings. You are what you are when you are born so he didn't "turn" or choose this. It choose him. Who cares???? but to live a lie, and hold someone else in it unknowing to that person is just wrong. Unless you have been in her shoes, you have no idea what life is like behind closed doors. She wants to stay, thats her choice. But she was not giving the choice 17 years ago, and that to me is just plain NOT COOL!
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other then murdering him i dont see a way sorry if that sounds closed minded
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