No it's not a bad reason to think about breaking up. Sex is the glue that holds a relationship together. I've been married for almost three years. We've been together just short of ten years. We have a 15 month old. Her sex drive has gradually dwindled through the years. My advice is TALK! You need to talk about it. You probably have talked and talked about it, but you must keep on talking. Women, at least in my experience, need specifics. Every time my wife and I talk about this, she always asks me to prove my stance. Keep a mental, or write it down if you have to, log of instances when you've gone above and beyond to get her in the mood, and she shut down. From time to time, my wife just lays there and let me ride her, with no desire in her eyes. This is worse than not putting out at all because you find yourself resenting her for it. If any of this is familliar, please talk to her some more. I've explained to my misses that I need to feel wanted. I've told her I want her to long for the pleasures, especially when she needs the satisfaction. Until I figure out the answer to my own questions and problems, I, sadly, can't offer anymore advice about this. I can only say that if you truly love her, don't let the sex go away. Work as hard as you physically, mentally, and emotionally can for it. If she can't bring herself to desire you, and doesn't feel the need to try... Well, then you're not too far off in considering breaking it off. Don't give up hope until you're totally spent. Good luck...

.......move on...she has!

hey mate im 17 ive been with my girlfreind for 4 years now and at first we had sex once a day every day for 6 months, then it went down hill from there,now at 4 years into our relationship im lucky to get it once every 2 weeks so i know how you feel.Italk about the situation to her and its like it goes in one ear and out the other,we go out for dinner every 2-3 weeks,but that doesnt help i work 6 days a week so not much weekend time together,but we make the most of it..dude my advice is get used to it, thats woman they are not like guys that think about sex 24/7 as much as i wish they were just make the most of what you get....hope it works out for you

you love her? You sure about that? Is she depressed? Stressed? What is going on with her?