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he is being ver unfair. i would suggest supervised visits that way the authorities can see how useless he is and if you decide to not let him see your child its in your favour. also tell him that you are thinking of this it may kick him up the backside to realise he can not treat his child or you like this.
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Your ex is being not considerate of his child nor you. Apparently he don't care about being late or making both of you wait. It must be terrible for your 7 year old to go through all the time waiting. If I was you I would talk to him seriously and tell him if he does this again he won't see his child til he acts like a mature responsible man!
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From a personal point of view, I think you're being more than fair. 30 minutes is plenty. I hope you keep a log of how late he is each time. If it comes to a renegotiation of your arrangements, it's always good to have the facts at your fingertips.
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Fair! I would say that is 29 minutes too long. I would (if you have this agreement through the courts) file a complaint and go back in front of the judge and see what can be done.
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You are being too fair. What kind of father is he that he can't make it his business to be on time for picking up his own child. Have you tried asking him about this? If it's an issue that the time is inconvient for him for a valid legit reason then I would encourage him to petettion the courth to have the pick up and drop off times adjusted accordingly to a time that is more convient. However all this sounds like is he is selfish and inconsiderate and obviously picking up his child for visitation is not something that is high on his list of priorities.
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Being more than fair. I would not give him 30 minutes, myself. Problems with exchanges, especially constant issues like this one, can be upsetting to the child(ren) Not only fair, but I would bring it up to my lawyer.
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ur right, i think, about giving him a "window" of time.....that's totally unfair to the child~ur ex should be thinking more about the child's feelings instead of holding you up in your day (also, it's unfair to you as well)
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unfair, probably. Childish, definetely. He needs to act his age and realize that his child is not a pawn in this game. He need to think about the child and not his self.
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Very fair on your part.
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Does this guy have a job? Is he on time for that? Personally I wouldn't give him a whole half hour. Or you could tell him 1/2 an hour earlier than you are going to be there. He plainly is not thinking of your child in all this. I'm sorry you have to go through this.
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