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I think it's fairly safe to assume, icanmakeyeasmile, that nobody likes to be deliberately ignored - for whatever reason. If you fancy someone and have let them know and they suddenly start ignoring you then they show two things - firstly that they don't want to go out with you, and secondly that they are not good enough for you. If someone doesn't fancy you the way you fancy them they should be brave enough to say so and avoid misunderstanding. If it's a peer pressure thing that they ignore you when they're with their mates then they are probably still not right for you. If someone knows you fancy them and they fancy you too, then they shouldn't be afraid to show that in front of their mates. Perhaps you need to think why you fancy that person. Is it simply because of physical appearance? If so then you will probably have an unhappy relationship. If they ignore you deliberately then they are likely to be as shallow and immature about other areas of your relationship, taking you for granted and demanding rather than giving. Re-evaluate what you what in a man, and look for a real man, not some wannabe peacock.
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of course, we are people too! Despite all evidence to the contrary, we have emotions too, darn it!
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I would venture to say that most men feel the same way. If we like someone it is not fun and can be frustrating, irritating, depressing and a real ego deflater if someone we like is ignoring us on purpose. Especially if we already have established even a small friendship or relationship with them and we thought everything was headed in the right direction! Yes, it can be a bummer. But there are worse things in life to experience. :)
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