Ever dump someone even though you really loved them, just because you didn't feel he/she was right for you? (And hurt them very badly in the process?)
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Ravenclaw87
ANSWERS: 11
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Somtimes I still try to do that, but you know that reason you have that makes you wanna break up with them, ends up being nothing or becomes forgotten because you are willing to accept it to be with them. That is what happened to me, there are many times when I tell him i am done, and I want him to get out. He doesn't take me seriously, but most of the time I am glad he didn't leave.
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i dont undererstand how you could say that you really loved a person that you dumped. it is such a hard thing to find so why would you throw it away instead of trying to work things out.
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I didn't but my ex did. There all kinds of reasons why you might love someone but not want to spend your life with them.
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No but my ex did. Of course I am not quite sure her reasoning was correct, seeing as how she said I made her happy. Then again she did say she wasn't sure if I was the one, but she didn't try figuring it out either. Instead she just pushed me out of her life and said it was better for us to move on. Although if it's meant to be then I will hear from her eventually. Oh well, c'est la vie.
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I have. It hurt both him and me in the process but it was the right thing for both of us in the long run. We were both holding each other back in life. We have both now moved onto better things and even though I know I broke his heart Im sure he is happier. It took me about a 1.5 yrs to be able to speak about him without crying. It sucked.
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HOW CAN YOU REALLY SAY THEM SO MUCH AND U TURNED AROUND AND DUMPED THEM IT REALLY DOESN'T REALLY MAKE SENSE
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I did, but he wasn't right for me because he led me astray (running up debt and worse), and I was too weak to stand up to him. I hurt him so badly he would never speak to me again, even though I subsequently changed my mind and sent him many, many letters of apology. Too late. I could've dealt with it better and I've always regretted it. But that's life - well, mine, anyway :(
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You aren't very smart. Who do you feel would be 'right' for you? A rich guy? What? Love isn't enough?
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yea becuz it cause a lot of drama
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Unfortunately. We are back together again, though.
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Well, this just happened about 4 days ago. I still love the person dearly, but our views on certain things were a bit different and starting to ride on me. There were other things as well, but I felt that they deserved someone more than me. How could you break up with someone that you love? That is a question that ran through my mind and hers. She doesn't understand why I didn't stay and try to work things out. Well, I was trying to work things out, by myself that is. It saw that is wasn't working and decided to do what I did. Was it a good decision? Who knows. Will I regret it? Already am and probably will forever. Will good come out of it? It may, doesn't mean I won't still regret the decision, but good may still come of it for both parties involved. In all truth, I am still unsure/confused of why I did it, but it wasn't because I didn't love her. It was because I did love her. That may not make sense to many, but it doesn't have too.
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