What would you do if you lost the love of your life or did lose the love of your life not just by death but over anything...what would you do to get over it? How would you handle it?
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I REALLY don't like thinking of it, so much so that I can't really answer.
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I didnt lose my boyfriend or nothing but i know if i did i would be crushed inside....i wouldnt know how to handle it so im asking you guys how would you???
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i lost the love of my life because he cheated on me and he decided to break up. at first i didnt know what to do with all the love i had inside, but eventually, after crying for about 2 weeks, i turned all that love into hate, and instead of remembering all the great things i began to notice the bad things.. i even started finding out some horrible things and decided that i was better off.. after a couple of months, this love that turned into hate is eventually turning into indiference... i have made myself stop looking at his facebook, not talking to him online, etc and i am proud to say that i am truly getting over him. i hate him for what he did to me but i love him for all the good things he taught me.. i just think of him as a phase and i am really looking forward to moving on
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I believe I would feel lost, but try to be strong and force myself to talk about him to my son, so he could really know what his dad was like. I believe I would heavily lean on family and friends. I could not be alone through it. I know I would need help. Perhaps from my grandmother. She has been through it.
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I have lost many people close to me and I would handle it the same way. I would be devastated, but I would take time to grieve/get over the heartbreak and then continue to move forward with my life. Wallowing in self-pity simply isn't my style. I went through a series of events many years ago where in the middle of all hell breaking loose I lost a couple of people near and dear to me. Somebody close to me told me to pull my self together and get over it already. I realized that I had managed to mire myself in pity party mode for far too long. I must have been a blast to hang out with! Errr, no. I looked at the things/people that I had lost and the things that were still great in my life. Shoulda had a V8. I had spent so much time wallowing that I had failed to focus on all the beautiful and positive things in my life and they were slipping away from me as a result. I resolved to put the pain behind me and move on with the rest of my life. Beats focusing on things that are negative and will not change. You can't bring people back and you can't change traumatic events, but you can deal with them in a healthy manner.
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I dont know.. i reckon id be a mess for a while and drink a bit.. but then ill find someone (hopefully) to fill in the emptiness.. but with death you dont get over it.. my nan died 8 years ago and i miss her still.. noone can replaced a loved one taken by death.. ever
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