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by Anonymous on November 2nd, 2006

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I thought my girlfriend was cheating with a male friend. She denied it, we got into an argument, and she left our apartment. Now she's staying with him. She says she sleeps on the couch, but it's been nine days. Is she cheating or not?

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  • by Azraff on November 2nd, 2006

    Azraff

    I just wouldn't bother with her any more. Find someone you can trust. They are out there.

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  • by Shemarq the Wamama on November 15th, 2009

    Shemarq the Wamama

    One way to find out for sure. Go over there around the time you know she wakes up in the morning. Look at the couch. You'll have your answer.

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  • by AnonymousGirl on July 10th, 2009

    AnonymousGirl

    Why are you with her? Even if she's not cheating, wouldn't it bother you wondering why she's there in the first place?

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  • by Anonymous on November 2nd, 2006

    Anonymous

    It does not take a rocket scientist to draw a bad conclusion, from this situation.

    Knock, knock.....anybody home?

    Wake up and smell the roses.

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  • by keep_on_dancing_to_the_tune_of_life on November 21st, 2009

    keep_on_dancing_to_the_tune_of_life

    is she beautiful? ..
    is she tall?. .
    is she white?. .


    are you blind?. .

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  • by suzycue on November 21st, 2009

    suzycue

    It doesn't matter any more. Neither one of you is ready for this relationship because of the lack of trust. She is being disrespectful and has already dealt the deal-breaker, wherever she is sleeping in the guys house!!

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  • by jaygee on November 21st, 2009

    jaygee

    If it smells like a fish and swims like a fish.....its a fish. Nine days away at his place......move on my friend.

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  • by downtide on November 16th, 2009

    downtide

    It's not cheating if she's left you already. Nine days staying with him says she's not your girlfriend any more.

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  • by the guy behind the bushes on November 15th, 2009

    the guy behind the bushes

    Yeah

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  • by Werewolf3 on November 15th, 2009

    Werewolf3

    No proof, so you're just going to have to trust her for now.

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  • by SigFreud27 on November 15th, 2009

    SigFreud27

    shes probably cheating on you bro. she's definitely lying to you about sleeping on the couch, so at the very least their sharing a bed together. she's probably banging him, so i'd cut her loose as swiftly as you can.

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  • by misstina on November 15th, 2009

    misstina

    Does it really matter if she is cheating? Clearly you had an issue with this friendship and she got mad at you and went to him! Doesn't that show complete disregard for your feelings and your relationship?!

    Maybe she is staying with him to test you, and your relationship. Maybe it is time to take a stand and say how you feel and she how she responds. If she still responds with showing no concern for you, then you clearly are fighting a losing battle. You can only be in a relationship with someone who cares about you and your feelings.

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  • by AntigoneRising on November 2nd, 2006

    AntigoneRising

    Barring extraordinary psychic abilities, I cannot tell you for absolute certain. However, I'd put my money on yes. Even if she is not, leaving your apartment and staying at the apartment of the guy you suspected her of cheating with is an extraordinarily hurtful and callous move.

    http://www.saveyourmarriagecentral.com/getinformed/articles/tenflags.html


    How many times are you going to ask this same question?

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  • by AntigoneRising on November 2nd, 2006

    AntigoneRising

    dup...I think someone merged your two questions.

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  • by Phillis - Zacks little sister on November 21st, 2009

    Phillis - Zacks little sister

    She's already lef tthe relationship. You should, too.

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  • by Tiger61 on December 18th, 2010

    Tiger61

    give it up. Not worth your time anymore

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