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  • Don't leave the guy you have, for that next guy will end up being just like your old one. Be content with what you have, and don't think of what you think you want or don't have. I seem to remember a certain woman back in the day that was a bit too curious and fouled up what she and her man had in some garden.
  • Well, I'm sure you got with your current bf for a reason! >_< He still loves you and I know you love him too. These are things that just test your love for each other. There are people that you are going to find that you feel attracted to, but it's just like having a crush on them. Nothing really serious. But if you really feel you wanna see if this other guy is the one for you, then just go out in friendly dates, without breaking up with your bf. Just talk to the other guy and you'll see what you like, what has changed and whatnot.
  • If you feel like your relationship is just OK, maybe he isn't the guy for you. Rather than just jump ship on the relationship, could you talk to your guy about what you think is missing or could be improved upon? If that doesn't work, then maybe it's time to move on. If he isn't the one for you, don't waste your time or his.
  • An OK relationship is not OK anymore. Is the guy you can't stop thinking about single, have you talked about dating...Did your relationship become ok after you saw your high school friend? What is not ok about your realtionship...it's okay to spread your wings, you're not married!!! If you like this guy, ask him out...you never know, he could be the one!
  • If you can't stop thinking about someone else, you've already left the relationship and you are living a lie. Don't you have enough respect for your boyfriend to be honest with him? That is not kind..how would you like it if the positions were reversed? You owe him better than that. :(
  • You do what you need to do to be happy. WARNING: I tried that once... (Dropped a girlfriend because I couldn't stop thinking of another girl.) The other girl just wanted to remain friends, and after a couple of months, the girl I'd dropped went with someone else... and I found that I really DID love my GF. I thought for a while that I was having a breakdown. It's NOT a fun feeling! If you are willing to risk what you have for what you MIGHT have... Good luck. ;-)
  • maybe you should get out of your relationship purely because its not good anymore ; OK is never worth settling for. the old crush is a seperate issue. dont interlink them. i recently saw a guy i had the most major crush on in PRIMARY SCHOOL , hehe, and suddenly had a bazaar rush of all those pre-pubesent "feelings" for a minute. he wasnt even as hot as i remembered. it was random & funny, and even though it was cool to see him again (and i got to admit it was a pretty good feeling when he was TOTALLY checking me out,lolz) i mos def didnt think or want to hook up with him now. u kno? u prob jus want something new & exciting in your life again, your relationship isnt doing that for u anymore, so when you saw your old crush you saw a "good" reason to bail. hey, then again maybe there is a possibility of somthing there with the old crush.. who knows! (^ . ^)
  • well if you love him don't leave him "Never leave the one you like for the one you love cause the one you like will soon leave you for the one they love"
  • Wow. What ever happened to loyalty?
  • No offense elinor, but your 'answer' is not very helpful. Do I really want to be 'loyal' to someone who isn't right for me anymore? I came here for advice, not to feel like a jerk for asking a question.
  • &quot;Old Flames" are hard to extinguish. If your heart melted, again, then your "ok" relationship is not "ok". Tell your "ok" guy goodbye and go for your heart throb. You will never be happy, until you do.
  • seek happiness. are you satisfied with your average relationship? i wouldn't be. play the field. you'll regret it if you didn't.
  • There's always a third option!
  • you shouldn't break up n if there are problems you should talk to ur bf about em, and about that guy: you just think you like him but look into ur heart
  • Your relationship may not be ok, this could be a sign that you may not be that commited/should move on or just a simple test. If you have a strong urge to talk to this person, try talking, but only talking. If your feelings dont die down, it may not be fair to continue the relationship with your current boyfriend (and dont make these meetings "dates", considering on how "open" you two are that would be considered cheating). Is this relationship something you would give up that easily? Do you really feel like you can take a chance with this guy and not get burned? Are you in lvoe with what this guy use to be when the two of you were closer or his current self (you may be in love with the idea of him but not actually caught up in him)?There is probably a reason why he is a guy you "used to like", and you may want to keep it that way. It all depends on your current relaitonship and where you see it heading, if this current relationship is important to you, use this as a test and move on...but if you cant, emotionally, you arent there and not giving your guy a fair chance. Good luck!
  • im goin through da same thing n i don know wat 2 do either i think u should just stay w ur boyfriend for a while if in a month or so things jus aren der for u den break it off....maybe ur bored of da relationship dats y ur seeking other people

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