ANSWERS: 5
  • I am the "wife" in a gay relationship. I fill the traditional role of wife as best I can in all respects. My husband, when I don't do as he says or keep the house clean or make myself available for is sexual needs punishes me with slaps or spankings and the like. I don't like the punishment but my husband is the boss of our relationship and sometimes I deserve to be punished when I disobey. I don't know about other persons' relationships but ours is normal to me.
  • It is not "normal" for adult partners to use corporal punishment - at all. Gay, straight or otherwise. This indicates a superior/inferior or dominant/submissive dynamic in a relationship that is unhealthy.
  • so you are a man right? and your husband is abusive? I'd say the same thing to you as any other person saying this....that's not right. you deserve someone who slaps you with kisses not hands
  • I don't think it matters what kind of relationship it is. Adults don't use corporal punishment on other adults. I doubt it could be 'normal' in terms of most relationships of any kind of pairing.
  • I think you know the answer yourself dont you! leave him and take all that you need, do not waste a moment, he is punishing you for his fears, get out!

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