Me and my gf hav ben together for a while, she told me early on that her & her bf messed around years B4 us. Today my gf asked me to kiss her bf and her bf was very willing which is very unlike us (modest peeps) is that ok? What do I do? I love my gf alot
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Sorry for the stupid gf/bf, it was too long
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No, its not ok. However willing everyone is, in this kind of situation, in the end the only outcome is pain and anger.
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Well the thing is, I don't want her to feel like I'm not "adventurous" enough. I'm 22 and she is 18 and believe me we have a good sex life, a willing to try anything kinda relationship. But I don't know about this.
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if your comfortable with it then it is fine. But if not then speak to her and tell her how you feel. My bf wanted a threesome with another girl but i was adament that this was not going to happen. i do not share lol i spoke with him about it and he understood. if she loves you then she will accept your decision.
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Sounds like it could be a very....exciting endevor...one that remains in your memory forever. But, most likely it would be the kiss of death for your relationship. "I only suggested it cause I thought that's what YOU wanted". "Did you like kissing her more than me?"...."When you're with me, you're thinking of her, aren't you?" "Why didn't you answer the phone....you were talking to her" Blah, blah, blah. A trade-off: One fantasy for one destroyed relationship and one destroyed friendship. You decide.
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You are a dude? and u are thinking about kissing another dude? EWWWWW
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WTF!!??? I would totally run in the opposite direction. I dont hit girls but it would be very hard to resist in your case! I'd ask her what the hell is her f***ing problem! Man, i dont care what anybody says, no one would want someone that they really love to have sexual contact with anyone else (girl or boy) for sexual voyeurism. She is being selfish. YEven if you look on the flip side: the dream of two girls kissing seems like bliss but if you think about it, its not a realistic, intimate relationship. She clearly doesn't respect your manhood and she is twisted. You need to set that straight, and then dump her. I also recommend that you thoroughly screen the next girl you go out with and find out how she thinks. Tell her ass to buy f***ed up porn for that! If kiss that guy for her, dude you dont deserve to own a penis.
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If you are horrified by such a suggestion, tell her that if you wanted to kiss a bloke then you'd have asked him on a date instead of her. Do not misunderstand that if you are OK about it, then there is nothing wrong with you giving it a go - after all, he may be much more of a catch than her and you won't know what you like unless you try new things. However, if you are heterosexual and do not have any interest other blokes then tell her to forget it - period. There is nothing to discuss and if you need to tell her this, in no uncertain terms, then you must do so. You might also want to add that if she wants to play games, then she should head for the nearest school playground - where the rest of the kids are.
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