Any women actually like to be "punished" humiliated or belittled during sex?(verbally or physiclly)

I like being 'punished' ;) The spankings, light slapping around, etc. As for humiliation and the like, I gotta say that's subjective. What's humiliating to one person may not be to another and vice versa (ie: some people find being urinated on to be humiliating but I don't and like it). For me, it's more so the making-fun-of, and the belitting as well; I can't take those. It doesn't turn me on at all. As kinky as I am, I'm the kind of sub that needs to feel appreciated and such. I love hardcore dirty talk and names but for example names/words such as 'worthless, useless, stupid, disgusting, 'using you', etc, I don't like at all. Some people love being called that and get off on it, and good for them, that's fine. Whatever floats your boat, as long as it doesn't hurt anyone. I think in reverse I'd enjoy delivering that kind of treatment to a sub as a Domme (but only if that's what they're into; I cannot do it if I know they don't like it and it's 'genuiene' and non-consensual cruelty.) But the punishment I like :) As long as those words and cold treatment aren't used.

Very much. In a combination of mental, verbal and physical expressions of it. In my everyday life I am an aggressive and strong professional woman and single mother, in the sexual area I need a man that can show he has power over me. I like to feel a man is using me to give himself pleasure, that Im just there to service his needs when he desires and in the manner he desires. It excites me incredibly to be called names like "dirty whore" and "slut". Light bondage, light punishment like slapping breasts, ass and face and being forced in uncomfortable positions permitting a man to selfishly use any part of my body to satisfy himself is so satisfying to me. With the partner i have now I enjoy being humiliated by him telling me that no matter how much he uses me he still needs women with bigger breasts than mine to feel satisfied, and he sends me to bed so he can masturbate while watching and talking to girls online or on phone for hours while sending me messages telling me how good it feels and how bad he needs them. He has also arranged to meet with girls while talking with them, and im waiting in bed masturbating hopeful to be used, to go satisfy himself then brags to me about how good it was. And when he has sex with me next time he reminds me of how good he felt using the other girl and how he will need to do it again and this makes me have intense orgasms. I thank him for satisfying himself so well and am grateful he still uses me while humiliating me.

i actuuly enjoy i was forced to spread my cheeks and being called degradeing comments like whore sand nigger,camel jocky,camel fucker,it makes me more intense and submissive and also when i swallow cum to please

i like to be spanked! but sometimes i like to be treated like a peice of meat, like i dont have no feelings and just there for you to cum in or on. but not all the time. it depends on my mood.

Many women I have been with like it but all to different degrees (depends on the individual) As long as it is consensual it is really exciting.

Yes. I have the full slave mentality when in a relationship. However, I'm completely different in my work and "normal" social life.

Yes. It's not even as much a sexual thing. I grew up being pretty depressed and although I'm not so much anymore, I need these acts to be forced upon me when I'm feeling down.. and sometimes just randomly as well. I used to cut, but now I let someone else do it through masochism. Certain feelings build up within me, and I feel like I'm going to crack, I'm being eaten from the inside out, my heart rate races, and I feel like like I'm suffocating. As soon as I feel the cold metal slice my skin, it's an instant feeling of relief as I can now calmly regain control over myself. I feel really guilty for my feelings of sadness so to me, this is punishment and this can be taken out in many ways. I can be cut, whipped, choked, beaten, slapped, burned or anything else you can think of. Degrade me, devalue me, use me, abuse me, make me feel less than human, as I will worship every last inch of you and serve you as your slave. I am less than equal and will strive to be obedient and acquiescent. No matter what you order of me, I will obey.

my yahoo is csexythings@yahoo.ca and i would love it if someone added me and made me feel like a dirty little... i never say no.

Hell yes! I love to be verbally abused and humiliated during sex. I get off on it so hard. I am extremely driven and successful during the day but at night I want to be shown I am still inferior and treated as such. I love to be slapped on the breasts and the face and even be urinated and ejaculated on. Only problem is that it is tough to find a guy that knows the boundries of play time and real life. I will keep looking though.

Hey yes, I like being punished by my boyfriend. Slapped on the face, spanked on my bottom. I love being dominated at home. I'm normally so "sane" at work and in the outside world. I'm respected in my job where I'm the boss of 5 people in my team. But many women (not all) feel like they lose something of their femininity if their boyfriend/husband is not in charge of things at a private level. Even though he values my opinion and he listens to me, he is the final decision-maker and I love that.
To know that he is in total control of me, to know that I must obey him, and that in spite of his power and strength over me, he still keeps me warm and safe - that's what makes me feel feminine. Of course, it's only fun because I know that I can trust him and that I really do have control when I want it or need it. Although he is in charge mostly, he never forces me to do anything unless I want to be forced.

no, not me =] im the type of girl who likes to be kissed softly on the chest followed by getting a compliment, perhaps if he told me i was beautiful, or amazing, thats what im into. i would maybe try the whole "punished" or "belittled" thing, but my favorite is the passionate making love kinda stuff. =D

I will be honest.. I love the first response. I agree and only WISH my b/f could treat me that way. I would so love for him to talk/meet/fuck or watch him look at other women while making me wait for him. That is such a turn on. You are a very lucky girl. My b/f calls me bitch, slut, and whore and will play slap me.. but that's about it. He feels weird about doing it but lately I have got him to tell me about this girl that turns him on. She works at a video store and has big tits. I LOVE HEARING about her and what he wants to do to her while he is fucking me. I love the thought of him getting off on other women

yes very much so. Both verbally and physically, but with limits that my bf is well aware of lol

I totally get off on humiliation and degrading acts done to me. Verbally or physically don't matter and throwing in some public stuff only stregthens my desires.

Wow, now I'm curious about this. Any girls want to discuss it with me? kehneth at gmail.com if you do.