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  • If he has sex with you before you are 18, he can go to jail for statutory rape. Doesn't matter if you agree to having sex, you are a minor, and he could spend 15 years in jail!
  • um... when im 16 in canada your a legal age to have sex.. it wont be rape becuzz he just turn 19.. and im turning 16..so we are 2 and half years difernce..so how can i tell mom his age should i wait till im 16 then tell her or what?
  • Well there's no point lying about his age...4 years age difference is not that earth-shattering anyway.
  • first of all - even if you wait until your 16 to have sex with your boyfriend he'll be 20. your a minor and he's an adult. it's against the law and he can go to jail. i know you don't want that to happen!! Your mom loves you and wants the best for you. The best way to tell her - is to just come stright out with it. believe me - mom's have a way of finding things out even when you don't want them to - and its alot better coming from you then the neighbor or someone at church.
  • well if its of legal age in Canada then your mom really can't do much about you two being together. so the best way to tell her is to just come right out with it.
  • 1st dont be stupid and have sex, your too young and too smart. If he is someone you really like and he is special to you, then she wont care that much. She is just worried about your saftey and i know your probly tird of hearing that from her, but things are diffrent now and with that age diffrent at the age you are would worrie her. Just tell her, and tell her how you feel about him. Remember she is just woried about you. And be carefull yourself.
  • By all means, lie to your mother. Let her find out later that you lied to her. And tell her you plan to put out at age 16. Let her sweat out the consequences of underage sex, the chance of sexual diseases and of teenage pregnancy. Let her pay your medical bills, or pay for your funeral if you get AIDS. Let her take care of you and your illegitimate baby for 18 years. And let him go to prison. Go ahead, make her day.
  • OK ALL U HAVE TO DO IS SIT DOWN WHITH UR MOM AND TELL HER YOU HAVE A BOY FRIEND IF SHE SAYS OK THATS GOOD , IF SHE ASKS HOW OLD HE IS U SAY HES 19LIKE ITS NO BIG DEAL IF SHE GETS ANGRY JUST LEAVE THE ROOM AND IF SHE CALLS YOU BACK JUST LISIN TO WAT SHE SAYS AND SAY YOU UNDERSTAND
  • Let me guess, you're waiting til 16 because the age of consent in your state is 16? Smart. Depends on how your mom usually reacts. I take it she's not entirely understanding or is she? If you can talk to her about stuff like that, ease into it. If you can't them I'm sorry but then you might have to lie to her. But cut your troubles down, like use condoms properly(read the instructions), try not to make life harder between you two, do what you need to do(chores, homework, help her out) and wait til you're older and you can move out.

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