ANSWERS: 9
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Does she have some sort of physical or mental disability that prevents her from successfully bathing, drying, and dressing herself? Four year olds can put their own clothes on. By seven, this girl is MORE than capable of taking care of her own bathing habits. The nudity I'm not terribly concerned with (naked flesh is just naked flesh to some people, and there are many families that are very open in this regard) but his actually aiding her in bathing and drying her body is kind of crossing the line, there.
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So she is 10 now? If she is physically not mature yet I don't think that there is anything wrong with it. If she starts to develop and her dad still goes into the bathroom, that would be a bit strange. My dad used to come into the bathroom and dry me when I was 10. It was so innocent. Today it is a bit of a different story.
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Back when I was in grade two [around 8 years old] I was already self-aware and had an idea what sex and all that was about. It was embarrassing to have people see my underwear, even if I was "just a kid". So I'd say 7 years old is old enough. She should be able to take care of herself at this point, more so if she's 10. But hey, maybe the father's just a little too attached to her baby.... ? =P
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I think I have mixed feelings about this. By age 7 a child should certainly be able to bathe, dry and dress themselves unless she has some sort of physical or mental raeson why she can't. By this age children especially girls are starting to desire some privacy and may be shy about others (especially the opposite sex) seeing them naked. At age 10 Daddy should not be in the room when she is naked. On the other side of the coin, todays society issues put strange ideas in our heads. He IS her Father and it could have been puley inocent. At age 7 I mean. Now at age 10 I would think that's innapropriate. Have you asked your daughter if her Father still sees her naked?
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Why is it every time a father takes an interest in his child someone cries pedophile? Are there any other signs that there maybe something more going on than a dad sharing time with his daughter? Kids grow up fast and sometimes parents do things past an age where a child doesn't need it anymore simply to keep a connection. Obviously you knew about it so it wasn't any big secret. I sometiems wonder what we are doing to our children by making their fathers so afraid of being near them for fear of being accused of something.
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its his daughter!!!... and she's only 10!!!... whats wrong with you!!?!?!?
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My father died when I was 7. At that time he still BATHED me himself and we shared a bed. Now 11 years later I look back and my father was the best. We were just close and I was the youngest with an absent mother.
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children at that age do not always wash themselves as well as they should,some parents want to make sure it gets done the first time to teach their child how things get done . My dad still helped me bathe at 7,8,9 MY mom wasn't there so he was the one teach me everything i know about life. So, Thank You daddy!! ,for being THE one who made me the WOMAN i am today.
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A funny addendum to perhaps lighten things up. A gal pal of mine always sat on the toilet while her son showered and one day he demanded she leave. She said "I've always been in the bathroom when you've showered." He replied "yeah Mom, but now 'it's' bigger." So she gave him his privacy after that. :) He would have killed her if he knew she had told me that little story.
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