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Well, what are you doing that makes you think that?
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You don't sound emotionally abusive. You sound like you're in a relationship with someone who isn't willing to give as much as you are. Unfortunately, the only option in these cases is to leave him. If he feels the loss and sees that he was mistaken, he'll come back and try to change his ways. If he doesn't, then, as horrible as it is, he probably never intended to give much to the relationship in the first place. I'm very sorry that you're in this situation, but try to take control and realize that it's for the best to find someone who actually wants to be a part of your life.
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thank you for righting this. I do all of the same things. if i am upset because my bf said he was sick and might go home from class early and then I don't hear from him for 5 hours, that means Im being inconsiderate...because i shouldnt require him to tell me if he is ok/feeling better/home w/e. it will turn into a 3 hours fight about i am selfish for being worried because i didn't specifically ask him to txt me. i think its my fault but i talk to other people and they said i was just worried about him and that he made it sound like i was demanding he check in, which clearly wasnt the case. I blamed myself for a really long time and still sometimes do. but if you are nice and polite when you say things to him, even if you are upset. he has no right to yell at you or ignore your feeligs. the very fact that you looked up information on abuse shows your not an abuser because people like that don't accept blame or responsiblilty and would be too self absorbed to look it up.
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