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  • Further info: One day he tells me he loves me and is in love with me, and other times he just really cares for me and doesn't want me to get hurt. He has recently said he has been having sex with me for past 7mths and not feeling anything although he has been saying to me that he feels the passion, feels really close to me and when he was on holiday thought about me the whole time. Then when I start talking about us and the future he backs right off. Telling me I'm pestering him and doing his head in. He says he is stopping himself from falling in love again because it made him go crazy last year when I hurt him and he wants to be more logical about things. He says I have proved myself to him and its his thoughts and feelings which are stoppng him. Is he playing with me or is he genuinely thinking about us?
  • Oh...bad situation. As a guy I can tell you 1) Men do not have the support from friends like women do. It is easier for a woman to talk about "feelings" to another woman than it is a guy to a guy. 2) Loves you but not in love....in my opinion he is saying "He cares about you, but you are not his "girl". He thinks of you more as a friend/sister. 3) and lastly the "sex". ****Why buy the cow...when you get the milk for free? And 4) If the guy is married in my opinion...that makes you a home wrecker. Especially if there are children involved. Is it the thrill of chasing someone you "can't have"? Do you feel there is something wrong with you, that you cannot get a guy on your own? Just MY opinion of course.
  • It is better leave him alone ! OK Try! Manoj

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