Is it bad for a 19 year old girl to date a 31 year old guy who is divorced with 2 kids (a 3 year old and a 8 year old)?
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As with most of these situations, it depends on the individuals. Dating anyone with children can be tough, how do you feel about his children? The relationship would have additional challenges (including the age gap) that other relationships don't have, but if you're both committed and work at it, there's no reason why it wouldn't work.
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were kinda in the same boat hes 29 im 20 and he has two kids 8 and 9 years but hes never been married. i just think its up to you are you ready for this type of realationship are you ready to be a mom? just ask your self this questions is he serious but yeah good luck hopefully i helped
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no..as long as they are good together, its fine and legal and moral
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It depends on you. I would say stay away you're too young to be worrying about kids.
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That would be entirely up to that 19 year old. Does she embrace the idea of possibly becoming step-mom to these kids? Does she understand how difficult it will likely be for her in that situation? It's easy to look at a romance with an older man through rose colored glasses. There is nothing wrong with enjoying that, but if the relationship progresses, both parties need to be realistic about the challenges that lie in their future together. It isn't really a question of good or bad, as I see it anyway. It's a question of having realistic expectations regarding the relationship, and being prepared and willing to take on the responsibility of helping to raise someone else's children.
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