Suppose a man just married his wife and there is no love on either side, they stay together cause they have a child, constant bickering and fighting what kind of marriage is that. Is it wrong for him to secretly love another women in his heart.?
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Veronica
ANSWERS: 11
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You should part as friends. Respect your wife to not carry on another relationship until your marriage is over. The fighting is hurting the child more than the 2 of you being together for their sake.
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I am of the conviction that marriage is meant to last a life time. Love is not feeling and many people may enter marriage with the wrong notions. Love is responsibility and both the man and his wife must endeavor at all cost to make it work. Their child should not be the reason for their staying together. Marriage is the union of the husband and wife, a very exclusive relationship. They are the very reason for a marriage. Secretly loving another woman in his heart is no solution to their predicament because it is sin. Two wrongs would not make one right.
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If you have stood before God and your friends and family and promised to love someone for a lifetime, then to love ANYONE ELSE SECRETLY OR OPENLY IS BLATANTLY WRONG AND DISRESPECTFUL. If you are going to stay married, learn to love each other. If not, then get divorced PERIOD.
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People marry for wrong reasons, not love then it goes down the drain
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No it's not wrong, in fact, they both should have others on the side to fill their void.
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Staying together for the sake of a child under those conditions seldom works and can be worse for him/her than having separated parents. Its not fair for a child to live with that type of turmoil in the home. Life is too short to settle for less than happiness. Why secretly love another woman in your heart? Either get counseling if you think that can work or leave. You can still be a good dad.
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it is wrong.to live for others is true life.responsibility make man kind.
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it's very wrong. real man can make decision. This guy seems to just want sex outside marriage.
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As long as it stays "in his heart" and out of his pants, there's no "wrong". If you are going to make marriage vows -- keep them. If you can't keep them -- void the marriage before you start playing the reindeer games.
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Provided both parties know what the score is then I cant see it being a problem..... in fact I'd go so far as saying that they could get-it-on without it being a problem. Frankly tho they might as well get divorced as they're going to do the child considerable emotional through their constant fighting.
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Well Joker if you think you are raising well balanced children look again! Parents who stick together solely because of they have children are doing far more damage then good. Life is far to short wasting it on something that does not matter, by the read of this question neither of you matter to each other. So in my opinion cut your loses and move on down the road. I assure you your child will be far better off, once you and your other half are happily separated from each other.
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