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  • What do you care what your ex's think about the decisions you've made for yourself? Hold your head up and go on about you life. You're a beautiful woman Elinor and you're not going to be alone. Try not to sweat the small stuff.
  • Elinor, when/if you every marry or not will be LARGELY up to you. Whether you find someone with compatible interests & philosphies on life who measures up to what you seek. As it is ideally for most anyone hoping for a committed r/ship. Any other opinions ie ex b/fs is not a consideration or a legitimate motivating factor!! There's every chance that they've moved on and away and concerned only about their own lives. So that leaves you deliciously unencumbered to do likewise :)
  • Who cares what they think... As long as you are happy with yourself, they should have no bearing on things. You can get over a broken heart, and be happy again. And it doesn't necessarily mean you need to find someone else. In fact, it's best if you find your own inner peace and happiness. When that shows through, people will flock to you. Enjoy life. Enjoy yourself. Be happy. ;-)
  • How will they know what is going on in your life if they are all "ex" boyfriends? If it is your choice, why should you be pitied? Happy Tuesday, Elinor! :)Marriage isn't the be-all and end-all of life, you know. Millions of married people are miserable..that's why infidelity rears its ugly head. Millions of single people are very content. If you believe that marriage will absolutely give you a better life than being single, you may be very disappointed if you do get married and find that was not true! :)
  • Worrying about what ex-boyfriends might think is keeping you trapped in the past. Learn from your past relationships but don't let them control you or your future. If they pity you, that's their narrow frame of mind - not your problem. Look ahead, not back and make plans based on what you want, not what they wanted for you. You don't owe them anything, certainly not the time spent worrying about what they MIGHT think.
  • Why would they pitty you? Dont worry about your exes...they shouldnt matter once you find the right guy to marry. I mean you may stay friends but if they dont support you...then How are they TRUELY friends?

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