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  • Walk away! I know it will be hard to do but my friend didn't and he has been obsessing over a girl for almost three years now. Everyday he wakes up and waists another day of his life thinking about the past and what was. Don't give her that power over your life just walk away. Good Luck!
  • I know it is hard but you must try to put this behind you. It just wasn't meant to be. She has a right to be happy as you do. The right girlfriend is out there somewhere and when you feel happy in a new relationship you will look back and wonder what you ever saw in your old girlfriend. She shouldn't have cheated. She probably cheated on the person she cheated on you with and I'm sure she will cheat on him too. I suspect that she is immature and insecure. Can anyone really be sure after 4 months that they have met 'the one'. Go out and enjoy your life. Put your needs first.
  • I was in a relationship for 10 years, got married to the bitch and then she cheated on me twice! To make matters worse, she even once said to me “Oh for F*$k’s sake, get over yourself already! Ok I know I cheated on you and it was AMAZING sex, but gee, get over it now!” so, she left, and I thought my world=d had ended, I was even contemplating suicide. But, thankfully, I took a deep breath and went on with my life, and now I am happily married to an unbelievable woman, who is sexier, thinner, and FAR FAR better to me than my ex. My advice is that yea, I know exactly how you feel, but, you can’t let her ruin your life, you must be open to new opportunities. Wishing you all the luck in the world...trust me, there IS a Mrs. Right out there for everyone.
  • Sometimes it just happens that way. Just because people stay together for so long doesn't mean they're supposed to be together. The best thing for you to do is let her move on and be happy. . you could try doing the same thing yourself.. good luck sweetie.
  • Take solace in the fact that, if she cheated on YOU--she'll cheat on "him", too! In the meantime, keep it moving, son!
  • Man, this is one of the few things that sucks about being young. Getting over this type of thing is difficult, but not impossible. You will get over it. Just try and occupy your time with constructive things like sports, exercise, reading, writing - anything that requires your concentration. Also, know this: what goes around ALWAYS comes around. Look for that in your own life. Realize that this is why it pays to be good to people, even if they're crappy toward you. Praying for you buddy. R!
  • You can do nothing and shouldn't feel bad about it - chances are you were not the right one for her. So what! You should feel happy that she has found the 'right one' and tell her so if that opportunity arises. Just because you were not the right one, that doesn't make you evil or bad - people connect differently and that doesn't mean you were bad to her. Thats just the way it is. Be happy for her and move on. You havent done anything wrong - so why are you feeling bad?

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