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  • I think this is very normal, under the circumstances, and if you really do care about him, give him time. On one hand, he is a man and has normal feelings regarding the opposite sex. But, on the other hand, he's recently lost his significant other and I'm sure feels guilt and a lack of loyalty to her if he moves on in a relationship. So, if you really care for him, wait this difficult time out with him, give him the time and space he needs, and be there for him when he is ready. Good luck.
  • Being a recently bereaved man I am in a dilema. I need to be intimate with my wife. Alas that is not possible so I'm between the devil and the deep blue sea. I need sex but it still feels as though I am being unfaithful to my love of 30 years. The man you are talking about is almost certainly torn between his need for sex (for comfort)and betraying his wedding vows. All I can say is that if he is the man for you it will happen when he is ready. It is up to you if you can support him until then.

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