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by darcie mooland on October 20th, 2006

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I just started dating a new guy and I feel sex is coming soon. Whats something very sexy that I can do, or wear for him when he shows up at my house sometime? I want to surprise him in a sexy way because I don't seem to be dirty and it would turn him

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  • by Anonymous on November 17th, 2007

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    I'd try to work out what his "thing" is -some guys have several obviously- he might go for the St Trinian's schoolgirl type look, he might have a thing for Catwoman and like you in PVC, he might be into old fashioned style frilly lingerie, or he might be into something hotter (peephole bras etc).
    Obviously you could just ask him - but that might spoil the surprise a bit, so maybe try the following:
    - sneak a look at his porn collection if he has one - that'll give you a clue.
    - Have a bit of a jokey chat - ask him things like what the sexiest thing he's ever done is, what's the sexiest outfit he's ever seen on a woman, which famous people/ characters does he fancy, has he ever had a really, really sexy dream, has he ever seen a sexy story/ video and thought "I'd like to try that." Keep the talk casual but fun - try not to let on that it's research for something you're planning.

    If all else fails, opening the door naked or picking him up from work wearing a trench coat and nothing underneath will probably work, though do make sure it's really him before you open the door if you try the former - you don't want to flash the parcel delivery man.

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  • by Anonymous on November 17th, 2009

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    You are sexy just the way you are and any guy who can't see that is brain-dead. The right clothing can highlight our assets but why don't you wear or do something that makes YOU feel sexy? Sexy but not dirty. Sexy is not dirty. Dirty makes us feel bad and ashamed of ourselves but sexy makes us feel good about ourselves and sex with our guy should make us feel good too.

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  • by pathfinder on November 17th, 2007

    pathfinder

    Tee shirt, no bra. Always works for me.

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  • by altgirl84 on November 12th, 2007

    altgirl84

    There's a whole lot you can wear and do for your guy when the times comes :) Now these are just my suggestions/what I do, it depends on the person if they like it or not:
    *Shiny black stockings
    *Garter belt
    *Silky/satiny or lacy panties (sometimes it's hot to wear a few pairs, layering can be very sexy)
    *High heels
    *Shiny pantyhose (this is subjective of course, there are men who love them and some who just love the bare bum up from the stockings)
    *Pretty lacy/satin push up bra
    *Corset (again, optional/subjective, some come with the attached garters which is so sexy as well)
    *Pearls or diamond-like necklace
    *Satin elbow-length gloves
    You can pick and choose or do all at once. Also, soft waves/curls in your hair could be sexy as well. As for makeup, this is subjective as well. For me, my look goes with the classic cherry red lipstick, dark eye liner/shadow. If you don't wanna wear a corset, maybe a see through negligee with a bra to tempt him, maybe even the ones that are fur trimmed. Earrings are a great accessory too, whether hoop ones or sparkling dangling ones. And, above all, the thing that will make this shine, is your attitude :) Act confidant, sensual, and believe in your womanly power :) When he sees that you see yourself as sexy, it'll make much more of a solid impression. :) Good luck!!

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  • by JUSTNORMAL on October 20th, 2006

    JUSTNORMAL

    I am pretty old fashioned but I would not go ALL out the first time you have sex, save it for further down the line. You can be sexy without being dirty, but when the time is right and you will know it,just wear some pretty, sexy lingerie, but for the first time, I would not show up at his door like that. That is just my opinion. ENJOY

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  • by wthing8 on January 3rd, 2009

    wthing8

    Put your ankles behind your ears it is a good look.

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  • by fmx250r on November 25th, 2009

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    wow, wish a girl did this for me.. well save the good stuff for later. just were some sexy lingere, us guys like to take things off of you. if your already naked thats no fun. leave anticipation for everything, so allowing him to take your cloths off is nice! second, a t shirt, belt buckle and pants is hawt and simple. cuz you can still be kinky however you view it.. take it all off but still have on the belt?.. when he shows up, hint him tease the hell out of him, when he is blue balled.. then have fun, explore. this is if of course if you love him, if he is just a hook up. honestly who cares.. haha

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  • by Alexmarr72@gmail.com on February 26th, 2010

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    A see through pink nightie would do it for me.
    All guys are different so his thing could be you wearing a big black strap on, you have to get to know him.

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  • by confab on October 21st, 2006

    confab

    By the way, to the person who posted this question: are you gay?

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  • by girlbi on November 22nd, 2009

    girlbi

    Matching underwear and shaved legs and armpits should do the work. Not too much, not too little.

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  • by EFF U AB on February 3rd, 2010

    EFF U AB

    I would do something discreet. Wear an outfit that you might have worn with him before, but make some changes to it. Shorten the hemline a little, but not butt cheek short and go without panties. When the opportunity arises, disclose your pantiless condition to surprise him.

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  • by iDeath on November 26th, 2009

    iDeath

    Go outside wering only a trenchcoat. Ring the doorbell, when he answers say "Trick or treat" It works for me.

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