I like to kiss my girlfriend's feet and suck her toes. She doesn't like it at all, so what can I do?

I understand, a woman's foot can be an alluring part of the female anatomy, for most people, others have disdain for it for some reason or another. What we are talking about here is sensuality, a large majority of the population are uneducated just how sensualy stimulating the nerves of the feet are. There are many websites that cater to those who love foot, leg, woman's shoe, and panty hose/stocking worship. Believe it or not these alternative escapades and lifestyles are more safer than direct intercourse. The people into such things are quite perfectly normal and you would possibly be surprised about how many people, men and women alike worship the beauty of the human foot.

Involving the foot in foreplay requires preparation, in the book "The New Sensual Massage; Learning to give pleasure with your Hands." by Gordon Inkeles he states and I quote; "The feet have secret needs. Anatomical evidence suggests that we have an equally obvious message imprinted on the feet, an unmistakable recipe for pleasure. This tiny area has more nerve endings than the back and legs combined."

The recipe for stimulating the feet not only involves the foot itself but the back and the legs as well. I suggest you start a soft touch sensual massage with your female partner, create a relaxing atmosphere to make her comfortable, soft music in the background, scented candles, and a nicely scented professional grade message oil. I also recommend you to get a book on sensual message, it will open a world of wonders for both you and your partner. Inkeles states that if your not incorporating massage into your sex life, you are doing nothing but cheating yourself and your partner from a most intense lovemaking session.

Another thing you can do is talk to her about it, I found an article on askthecouch.com were a woman was having problems with her boyfriends fetish. She seems to be having problems because her boyfriend is ill trained in the art of the techniques of foot and leg worship, thus she cannot relax or even enjoy or open her body up to new sensations. Inkeles suggests not to go straight for the feet but to start by relaxing other parts of the body.


Dear Couch,

My boyfriend of one year whom I live with and have discussed sharing a future together has a severe foot fetish and panty hose obsession. In the beginning I supported his fantasies but it has escalated to constant cravings to the point of being the only thing he desires sexually. I have become withdrawn sexually and feel objectified. My sex drive has all but diminished, which disturbs me because we once shared an intimate and healthy sex life. Can you help or give me some advice about my situation and how to deal with the fetish?

unsigned


Dear Hot feet,

Luckily for you we happen to have an acquaintance who is intimately familiar with the concept of foot worship so we have invited them to offer their experience to your question as follows:
Dear Withdrawn:

The beauty of sexuality is that it is a growing, learning, evolving cache of enriching experiences. You will, of course, need to speak frankly with your boyfriend about the situation. He is probably aware that all is not 100 with your mutual sex life, and is most likely open to ideas that can give you greater satisfaction.

I suggest this - tell him that you'd like to make a " deal" . Point out, that, like himself, there are elements of your own sexuality that you'd like to explore with him. Pick one such element that is a turn-on for you that you two have yet to try out - be it lingerie, toys, dominance and submission fantasies whatever it may be for you.

Tell him that you'd like for him to explain the intricacies of his foot desires to you, so that you can more fully understand and appreciate his desires. In exchange, you'd like to explore your fantasy of choice similarly with him. Take your time to explore this fully with him - this may go on for days or even weeks. The end result should be, at very least, a better understanding of your mutual sexuality, and at best, a start towards broadening your sex play into ever greater variety. Do what you can to work towards that goal - doubtless your boyfriend will gain a greater understanding.

Bear in mind this could be an eye-opening experience for you. Perhaps I'm the wrong person to ask, but I believe there's tremendous sexual power in the female foot. You might enjoy it more than you know!

Sincerely,
Ki@baresoles.com

So you see Hot Feet. Your guy finds your feet as sexy as your breasts, and if you think of it that way you shouldn't feel objectified. Also, as Ki suggests, take this opportunity to offer some unexplored yet desired area of your own sexuality. Like Ki says, sensuality is much more than textbook vanilla sex so take this opening to try new things.

- The Couch

-A rating would be most generous.

you are a podiaphile (One who gets extremely aroused by feet, or any part of the foot). do not confuse with paedophile, hope you're not one of them. if she don't like it, don't do it. if you 'need' to do it, find a new chic

hit her over the hand with a shovel, then suck to your heart's content

FIND A NEW GIRL

go jerk off at the foot worship stories free @ http://fictionerotic.com - look under fetish (most are foot - well sorted)

Those aren't the only two feet in the world you know!

get her sexually worked up first,get her really hot and then suck her toes and put her foot as far down your throat as you can and suck. she will like it more than she realizes.body suck her,don't leave one inch of her body unsucked.sound sensual? it is,i'm getting hot just thinking about it

well, you will have to decide how important it is. unless you are deeply in love, i suggest finding a girlfriend who will oblige you. i cant understand why she wont, i would question that right off the bat....

Dear Unsigned,

I had the same issue once. I think it's not the fact that your boyfriend is so obsessed with his fetish, as much as the possibility of you catching him admiring other female feet, which in turn, turns your switch-off, because you know female feet arouse him. I think that maybe in your mind you think that it's turned into some sort of an unfaithful issue. Maybe i'm wrong, but that's the way i felt, happened in my own situation. I also know that I absolutely worshiped my girls feet, and did too, admire other female feet, but, when it came time for the bedroom, It was allllllll her, honestly and sincerly. She was the one who lit my fire.

if she is a hard sleeper just wait until she goes to sleep