Another girl wanted to make-out with my girlfriend, and my girl said she wouldn't because I would get mad. I don't feel that's the reason she shouldn't do it. She shouldn't do it because she doesn't want to. Am I wrong?
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jxxrboy
ANSWERS: 16
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You're both right, but you're a lot more right than she is.
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It could well be that she really doesn't want to, but thinks that it would be hurtful to say it. It is easier to blame some else - "I can't becasue my partner would get mad" is easier to say than "I don't like you enough". A little bit cowardly, but a lot of people do it. Generally, it is better to judge people by their deeds rather than their words.
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No you are not wrong. Not sure of her age, but kissing another female in my opinion is gross, and if anyone asked me in front of my man I would tell him NO way I am straight. She could be bisexual, just a thought.
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Her reasons for doing it are her own, and it isn't your place to tell her how she should feel and WHY. You can certainly have your opinion, but she can also have hers. Try not to invalidate her feelings...that hurts a lot and is characterized by many psychologists as emotional abuse.
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nope,, ur totally right.. and stick to ur beliefs!
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u should have said i dont mind and find out if that was really what was on her mind
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I wouldnt say your wrong, sadly I just found out my girlfriend made out with three girls in one night while she was a little tipsy, what in the hell should i do? she said it wasnt that weird, but she wouldnt do it again if i didnt want her. I told her, you mean you would do it again?! and she said not if i dont want her to. WHAT THAT HELL DO I DO weve been dating for two years
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Who said that she doesen't want to?, she didn't, she said that she wouldn't because you would get mad, and by the tone in your writing she was right, therefore so she didn't have to put up with your tantrums she told you what she did, so if you don't want to lose her, stop queering her.
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It sounds like the two of you need to communicate better. You both are making assumptions about eachother.
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SHE SHOULDN'T WANT TO BECAUSE YOU'D GET MAD BUT BECAUSE SHE WOULDN'T WANT TO HURT YOU IN ANY WAY . BUT SHE MAY HAVE JUST USED THAT AS A SCAPE GOAT TO LET THIS GIRL KNOW THAT YOU'D BE UPSET AND BECAUSE OF THAT SHE WOULDN'T WANT TO DO IT. MAYBE SHE HANDLED THE SITUATION IN A WAY THAT WAS DIFFERING FROM HOW WE AS MEN MIGHT DO IT BUT I GIVE HER KUDOS FOR AT LEAST TRYING AND GIVING THE IMPRESSION IT WASN'T GOING TO HAPPEN. JMO
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How would we know? She's the only one who can truthfully answer that question. We can only guess.
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Agree with you
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Maybe she's a rug muncher and just doesn't know how to tell you.
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She is kissing your ass and getting out of it at the same time..
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Well this is the reason why i dont want to date bisexual women. U just never know if its cheating or not what they are doing (and besides u dont want to be the second choice of whos more sexually attractive: a girl or a guy). Im sure she'd get angry if u said u wouldnt make out with another guy if she didnt want u too. People often never consider the flip of the coin, so they are often looking at things from a one sided perspective. Ill tell u this though, a more accurate response out of her should've been: "I wont make out with her because -I- Dont want to upset my boyfriend because i care about him" THAT wouldve been an exceptional response now wouldnt it? Instead she has left u with mixed feelings and now ur wondering things... Some girls play mind games like these all the time ha ha
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this is kinky actually as i am having bright ideas about this situation of yours but i will get serious if she wants to do that well? then you two have to talk if, she doesnt want to do it only because you will get mad then you have to talk. talk to each other since you are in a relationship and you do know what a proper relationship should be
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