I have a boyfriend that I love. He is my first real boyfriend. He does not want to be with me anymore. Is it possible that he will ever love me. He says he does not want to see me with anyone, he will feel jealous, but yet he says he cannot love me.
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SAMANTA
ANSWERS: 6
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Well, that's fine for him, isn't it...? If he doesn't want to be with you, then he has no right to try to own you or control you. He needs to deal with it, and get over it. If it's over, it's over, and you are absolutely free to see anyone you'd like... it would be especially nice if you started seeing someone who could handle himself and pummel your ex if he were ever to try anything stupid... Don't put up with that crap... ;-)
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I know that this must be very hard for you Samantha. But it really sounds like it's time to move on. Don't waste your precious time and youth worrying about something that he is basically telling you is not going to happen. Instead focus on becoming the best you you can be and finding someone who deserves you. Good luck!!
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It's hard and it will take a while but time to realize he is selfish and needs to grow up. Let him go and do that. Take care :-)
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i felt that way about a girl one time.. i never said anything though i think it will go away with time, he needs to be around more friends/distractions so he doesnt think about u
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Samanta your boyfriend or ex boyfriend or whatever sounds like a real ass that needs to grow the hell up. Ho dare he tell you he doesn't love you yet he doesn't want you with another guy because it will make him jealous. He is right about not loving you because if he did he would understand you have a right to move on with your life if he doesn't want you anymore. He's a selfish immature little boy who needs to wake up and realizre he can't control what you do. He hasno right to prevent you from being happy if he doesn't want to make you happy. I say move on and find yourself a boy who will love you for you and not be all possessive like this guy is trying to be. Life goes on and in time you will see he wasn't the one for you. I wish you luck Sweetie
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you deserve someone who will respect and love you. don't ever settle for anything less.
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