The first step is spelling like everyone else... I'm not sure I understand this, but it seems like you're asking: "Why can't I seem to find someone that I know will treat me right? When I do [find someone that treats me right], he already has a girlfriend. I'm not like many girls, why can't the boys see it? Is it me or is it them?" To be perfectly blunt, if your personality is like your spelling, no wonder they stay away. I'm not an average boy, but I like girls that are intelligent and witty. Saying "boiz" or "du" does not reflect intelligence.

Lots of good guesses on how to spell the words in your questions, but you should learn to do better. I hope you speak better than you write the questions on answerbag. Try more and better.

i ttly agree, i hav the same problem, this realli cute guy but he alreadi has a guirl......u nd i r both ttly so not gurlz, i ttly luv dat guy tho....

It's probably you. You wrote your question in this way in an attempt to be "kewl"; however, it makes life more difficult for those around you. (Much harder to read and decipher. At first, I wasn't even sure what language you wrote this in.) So, in posting this, you had very little regard for the effects of your...errr...creative spelling on others. If you disregard the effects of the rest of your actions on others, you will not get very far in finding someone who knows how to treat you right. Such guys expect to be treated right in return. That means considering the effects of your behavior on them. ********************************************************** Edit: The "creative spelling" characterization was giving the benefit of the doubt. Having read some other questions, responses, and comments by this member, I am now thinking it is probably the best she can do. Example: Why can't I seem to be myself around a boi i like than with a boi i dont like but is eqaully attrative, no matter how much i try? "eqaully" What is that? "attrative" *stunned look* lUxUriiOuZ, this link is your FRIEND: www.merriam-webster.com

Could be that anyone civilized enough to treat a girlfriend well is repelled by such bad writing. Try English (if that's your native language) instead of chatspeak, which just makes you look lazy, affected, and very unintelligent. You'll definitely attract a better class of guy. The no-effort "kewl" chatspeak bit will probably only attract guys who just want the use of your body, rather than someone who will actually have some respect for you as a person.

this girl is asking for help and you just ridiculing her

it is NOT you! trust me when i say that it is going to take a long long time until you find the perfect guy that your looking for. and i know from past experince that before mr right you will have a few rough relationships. your heart will be broken, probably more than once, and it is harder everytime.not all boys will treat you right but as the saying goes 'you will have to kiss a few frogs before you meet prince charming'.At this stage in your life i am sure that you feel it is yourself to blame for not having a boyfriend and your peers do but maybe it is becuase the right boy who is willing to have a commited relationship has not come along yet. In the mean time dont put yourself down and always have a possitive attitude with a smile on your face, after all not having a boyfriend is not the end of the world!

You cannot give what you don't already have inside of you.You cannot truly love anyone until you love you first. In order to attract the right people for you,the most important thing is that you need to be the best you ,you can be.This mean that you have to love yourself first, you have to take care of your needs by yourself,you need to be your best friend,you have to be kind to yourself, you have to like who you are as a person, you have to have a strong belief in yourself, you have to be comfortable with yourself when you are by yourself or in the company of others.You have to be your own cheerleader to yourself. When you are secure and feel good about yourself, you will choose partners wisely and out of a place of maturity not out of a place of insecurity and desperation.Right now you seem to be desperate to find someone.This very desperateness is pushing people away from you, or attracting all the wrong situacions and people to you. I am sure you are a special person.We all are special because no one is like anyone else in the world.The Most important thing is to be special to yourself.When you are in a good place emotionally you will attract people who are also in a good place emotionally who will be able to love you because they already love themselves. So I repeat myself by saying that you cannot give what you don't have already inside you.You cannot give love to anyone until you have that love already inside of you.You cannot make someone happy unless you already have that happiness within you.When you accomplish this you will have true love!

Well, I think you are probably hiding behind this silly spelling, and that may indicate that you hide in other areas of your life, too. Relax and be yourself. Don't put on airs - and that includes writing in this affected manner and behaving in ways that are not true to your personality. When you behave in a natural, comfortable way, people (including boys) will respond to you in a more positive way.

Stop drinking the blue juice from under the sink.

its them, trust me

It could b where u live

most likely its the guys not you...........