Yes, it is. I have been so infatuated with a couple of women that, when I was in their presence, no other woman could catch my eye.

Yes but the reality is that it's a manifestation of infatuation and is temporary. Does temporary mean only a few weeks or months? No, temporary means not forever. So don't come at me with "well we've been together for 20 years and yatta yatta yatta," because 20 years is'nt forever. Eventually, no matter how much he loves you, he will notice another attractive woman. Because let's face it, there are 6 1/2 billion people in the world. Some of them are attractive, it's just the way it is. Does it mean that he loves you any less or wants to pursue them automatically? Of course not. But it's unrealistic to expect that your partner be completely turned off by all other women in the world except YOU. If he claims this, he is lying to you. You should always strive for idealism for the very same reason you should never expect it, because you're never going to achieve it.

yeah it is but it wont last forever. thats okay though

I appreciate beauty and find women to be attractive. That doesn't mean that I'm attracted to them, or that I want to be with them instead.

I might catch some flack from the liars on here, and the women who think their man is perfect, BUT, there's no way a man can't look. It's in our nature. We can be respectful about looking, not starring. We CAN'T not have a split second thought about how good they look, probably in that split second wonder what they are wearing underneath, and also how fantastic it would be to have sex with them....... NOT that we would ever act on that thought, but it IS there, in some manner or another. Any man who says it's not is lying, and any woman who says there man doesn't do this is fooling themselves.

It is possible not to look, but only when you're with your partner and paying attention. When she's not there, I'd say it's pretty impossible. There isn't really a reason not to look if she isn't there. She's not going to ask if you looked at any pretty women when she was gone. *shrug* And no man starts thinking all women are ugly just because they've got the one they want. Other's beauty can DIM in comparison, but that doesn't make all other women ugly. And even if they do look when they're girl is around, that's no indication that any other woman DOES matter. It's just a reflex to look at beautiful people.

I suppose anything is possible, but I don't think it is likely. I think it is a wonderfully, endearing quality in men to appreciate women without being obnoxious or disrespectful. It is fun to see them look a bit sheepish when they are caught. When a man is deeply in love he may try to reassure a woman that he feels the way the questioner described if his partner is very jealous or sensitive. I would encourage those women to realize he doesn't notice other women in an effort to disrespect them or make them jealous. After the initial infatuation wears off in a new relationship most men will begin to notice the females around them once again. It just means he is a normal, healthy, heterosexual male. I also know homosexual men who appreciate the female form and will also look at women.

It is possible for a man to not look, yes. In the presence of their woman. Also, I do not think it's realistic to think all other women will become ugly to him. They will still be beautiful to him if they were beautiful to him before. The difference is, if he is in love, their beauty won't matter. Sure, he'll still see them and notice them, but it's your beauty (inner and outer) that will matter to him.

That would be a big NO to both. Any man who tells you otherwise is lying.

Roses are beautiful but that doesn't stop me looking at or admiring orchids!

No it is not possible. Although he should not look while with his partner. Is it possible for a woman to walk past a shoe shop without looking? No! Same thing, there is nothing wrong with window shopping.

My husband used to say he never looked at other women, that he wasn't interested and I must say I never saw him looking either. Also, though we've split, his male friends still tell me that he never eyes up women when they're with him. (People have always said this to me since we got together - they thought it odd enough to mention, I didn't ask!). Now, is he odd? Or is he just acting for some bizarre reason? I admit I do not understand him.

Just because you're full doesn't mean you can't look at the menu

I doubt it, it's in human nature to be attracted to more than one person. I don't have a problem with my partner window shopping, as long as that's all it is.

i have personally dated a girl during a time which i was so into her and happy to have her that i didnt even think about other women; i did not view others as ugly, but i had no interest in them

YES! It is possible. If he is dead.

Only if he becomes a psychopath fixated on this one person: his partner!

its possible to not look. but i wouldnt say all other women are ugly. she doesnt look at guys, you should show your love by not looking at shapes and colors, and smiles and eyes. you can do it. save your eye candy gallery for when you are alone.

I'm male and I can honestly say, no. I glance at women all the time without even thinking about it. It's just a reaction.

I don't think it's possible for a single girl to make me think all other girls are ugly, but you can still think a woman is extremely hot or beautiful without being interested at all. It's definitely possible for a girl to make me lose interest in all other girls beyond simple friendship

Only if you become gay.

I absolutely ADORE my SO. She's my heart. But I still look at other women, not as prospective mates, but because it's simply natural to admire beauty. If God didn't want us to look at women, then why did he make them so lovely? : )

A guy can look but not make it obvious. When I'm with my wife I look but only in the way I look at everyone. She has told me that she likes it that I don't oggle other women when I'm with her.

guys are gonna look but they can be cool about it

My guy is healthy in spirit, mind and appetite. If he stopped looking.. I would be worried. He loves me but he loves the beauty of women to eye them. I am ok with it.

I think it's human nature to admire beauty. I wouldn't fault my partner for looking but it should be done in a manner that isn't disrespectful towards me. I hold myself to those same standards. Noone is a saint but we are all human.

I don't think it's possible for a guy not to look. It's okay with me though, because I'm probably checking out her tits and ass too. lol

Impossible. It is the nature of men to 'appreciate' the beautiness of women. Not that they love them but they only had uncontrollable instinct to just look at beautiful nature. I myself face it. You just could not control this. Sorry to mention it.

If my loving husband failed to notice another woman I'd be worried about his condition. Maybe he went gay, or needs a check up. Men look. Women exhibit. It's in our genes.

I would never look at another woman. NEVER! Oh, yeah, what BS. We look, that's what we do. Look. And sometimes more!

I am amazed at this Admiral's claim. What kind of sailor is he anyway? Every guy I know, married, divorced, or single; in trouble with his wife, or not in trouble with his wife is a looker... We like to look. We're men. Get it? And, by the way, most women like to show.

Even I like to look!

ALL OF US LOOK, STARE, PEEK,GAZE, WANT, LONG, no matter hold old we are or how long we're married.

maybe durring the act of sex. MAYBE. though if a hot chick walks by while you are having sex you are probably in a place monogamous couples would not go anyway.

Is it possible for a guy to NOT look? Apparently even the men themselves are divided on the answer. But your question begs the question "Does it matter?" If I am with someone and they notice how hot another chick is, it is my own confidence and security that lets me answer, "No. It doesn't matter." If he does more than look, then I'll need to decide if he's crossed any lines. Men are visual. Get over it.

I'm very much in love with my wife, I don't think other women are ugly, but I don't look at them sexually. I admire beauty in all things, not just women.

Yes, yes, yes. What helps is be a good listener and don't talk about mundane trivial things. Guys lose interest and their eyes drift. They're not gawking cuz they're horny (most of the time) it's because they're falling asleep at the wheel. Keep it real, spice it up a bit and look into his eyes more sexily.

ryans princess: I read my Bible every day. My husband, may he rest in peace, and I went to church without fail every Sunday and attended church related meetings on a weekly basis. I ran the Children's Bible Society and also Bible Camp in the summers. After my husband died I have continued my church work and have gone on several missions to Panama and Brazil. In other words I am as Christian as I can possibly be. Just like President Jimmy Carter. And, may I remind you, even he admitted his failures and that he often had lust in his heart. Father Hood says he likes to look. If we were perfect we wouldn't be here on earth. We'd be living in heaven at the side of our Lord. We all need to be more charitable and less judgemental. We are judged when we pass by our Lord. It is not for us to make draconian judgements. Read your Bible!

NO! I'm not dead I'm not that old yet I'm not gay But I do have a 7 second rule! I do not look at a woman for more than 7 seconds! Otherwise it is intimidating to my date, and can change the whole evening!

listen,men are pigs,all you women are right about us.if a gut wants to be your friend,he wants to have sex with you. if he wants to take you out for dinner as "friends" he wants to have sex with you.if he wants to hang out with you and your boyfriend he want to have a threesome with you and your boyfriend in turn he gets to have sex with you.so we will look at anything with a pulse and usally want to have sex with the same......

Listen, get real. Are you trying to live in a glass bubble? Guys arent's always lustful. What really to a guy is what he feels inside and how successful he expresses it to a woman so she feels confident and secure. A guy looks for many reasons...to compare woman to woman, to check out the fashion sense, to reminence their youth and vitality, or simply check out a gal with great genes. It's all harmless unless they oogle or are obvious with their comments and lustful thoughts like thinking out loud. Ugly is too harsh a word...it may be a small rut in their relationship that causes them to drift.

It's not possible, the line isn't crossed by looking at a woman anyway, if you are deeply involved and look at a woman and think, "Wow, shes pretty good looking." then that is normal.

Its in our instinct to notice "stuff" but if my girl is around me she has my undivided attention. Sometimes I need to use a little more of that "will power". It doesnt mean my girl isnt enough for me. But I really dont want her to feel that way.

Can't happen yo...

No, it's not possible. I look all the time, even on a first date.

men can't NOT look. we just need to be more respectful and discreet about it. maybe this next comment is naive, but it seems that a qucik galnce goes unnoticed by the sig other. at least mine never notices. there are fine looking women everywhere. i even compliment girls i know when they wear something nice or have their hair done extra special. just don't be so obvious fellas! and ALWAYS have a cover up planned! ("I was looking at how ugly her shoes were," for example.)

No. Any man who tell you that he doesn't notice other woman is a f*ckin liar.

i think that it's in our nature to look but not everybody is the same. for some reason you get to a point where your girl's looks becomes the standard for beauty. if that makes any sense at all. call me gay or whatever but it's true!

I love my wife ( she is hot) but if you had to rely on only one source for your libido yikes! We are hard wired to notice, both men and women. I mean you can be blinded for a while.

Absolutely impossible. Men are still going to look, but it does NOT mean they aren't still interested in you. Sorry, but we're just wired that way.

Looking is not the crime, beauty is made to be appreciated. The crime is wanting to swap beauties. proverbs 5-19 advocates adult nursing where a couple are so interdependant and so fulfilled that there can be no greater pleasure found elswhere. It brings a level of intimacy that cannot be duplicated by a casual aquaintance. Such a relationship goes beyond attractive. Then just looking is exactly that, just looking!

Lol,no!Why would you want that anyway?

Ryans Princess, in order for men not to look they would have to be blind. So poke you boyfriends eyes out and you'll be much happier. Unless he starts groping other women.......you have an ax right?

all man look just like you females do while we think of bonning what we are looking you think on how good and pleasurable that guy is we just get caught.you look hot by the way

No. Men are attracted to women no matter if their partner is the best girl in the world. We are genetically wired to want to look because we are visual, physical beings. If he says he doesn't look, he's lying.

I've been madly in love before, but it didn't stop me from noticing a pretty girl. I think women read to much into things like when their man looks at another women or even porn. The woman feels inadequate or that their man doesn't care about them. Women need to understand even if a man had a hareem of 100 women, and another pretty woman walked by, he'd still look. It's not something we do conciously when we turn to look at another woman, it just happens.

For a guy to look is natural, if he's intact and has a healthy sex drive which has not been fully satisfied. However, if his wife has satisfied him to the extent that she's milked him totally dry for the time being, then he's unlikely to look at another woman until his sex drive returns.

Only if they become gay. Men are wired to procreate. They can't help it. It doesn't mean they love other women. But the female body is just a VERY attractive form to them. They can and should control it...but it will never disappear unless..my first reason comes to pass.

to me, that happened, i guess happens every time you find yourself with a girl who is on your frequency, her's match yours, relating each other and likeing each other... it's when you know that the one wich you stay loves you not because something you represent but because who you are, bad sides and good sides. all in all. i've had it one time, and for a certain period of time we had really a good time toghether, really. but it wasn't meant to be. and i really didn't look any more at any other female. i saw only her at that time, and i guess a man who hasn't the same reaction doesn't really love his girl... or is an A.type. i guess this kind of man sees her more like a dog than a companion, a mate. because that's what most men do. and each one of them, in saying i love you means i own you, and i do not like it. and their girls, surely aren't their "universe" but, more like the livable planet in the solar system, and always thinking about new worlds to explore... feeling love is another thing... is absence of need, especially of other women. top models loose fashon, hootter's waitress too. but even here, i guess it's just more about me at a personal level...

My girlfriend is the most beautiful woman I have ever met. I tell her that, and I'm not lying. I was shocked and amazed when *she* introduced herself to *me* when we first met. Speechless and astounded. Thought I had won a lottery of some kind. So, she's good-looking, okay? You should know that going into the rest of this discussion. We met on a dating site, where she had seen my profile & photo and contacted me (she had no photo up). Well, I was interested in her wit and humor -- and still had no idea what she looked like -- but I was mainly just being polite and playful while I responded to her first emails. After a few weeks we moved to phone calls, and she had an interesting (foreign / accented) voice, but I liked that. So now I liked her intelligence, humor, wit, and voice, and I figured things were moving in a good way. A week later she sent me a poorly-focused photo of a youngish-looking woman, and I was floored. I had been conversing with *this* woman, and keeping her at arm's length?! From what I could see, she was the answer to a prayer. I nearly choked. The next evening she laughed and told me she had fooled me by sending me the photo of her 25-year-old daughter. I looked at the photo again and told her, truthfully, "It doesn't matter. If you're the mother of a young woman who looks this good, then I'm sold." A week or so later we actually met for the first time, and I confirmed that she was the woman in the photo -- a 45-year-old woman who could be confused with a 25-year-old. Fantastically good-looking, and just as nice as I had learned to expect from our earlier conversation. I've been head over heels for her since then, two years ago. Even so, even so ... other women will never be "ugly" to me. (In fact, I find most women good-looking in some way.) So I still look, too. The difference is that when I am in the presence of my woman, no one else attracts my eye, as unnatural as that may sound (even to me). She commands my full attention, without a single command.

I don't know about them thinking other beautiful are ugly.. that most likely wouldn't happen. But yes it is possible for a man to care less about other women.

I've tried not to look for years... I went to Iraq in the Marines, and tried to just disipline the thoughts out of my head. It doesn't work... after awhile your mind consumes you, and you can't help but stare. It's like opening pandora's box. Which leads me to a new question to post.

yeah its possible if he was blind!haha! i catch my man looking all the time but all i can say is do men like it when its the other way round?

No, all men look, whatever. I don't think a man can ever be in love with a woman like a woman can love a man.

I've been with my husband for 25 years. The day he stops looking at other women is the day we call the undertaker to come for his dead body. The same applies for me. I like looking at a handsome man, but that does not in anyway negate the love I have for my husband. Human nature? OK, that plays well enough.

I'm not being stuck up or anything but I know my husband feels this way. I can't explain how amazing it is when you find a man like that but they are out there. I found mine in high school math class.

I've had some really attractive girlfriends. If I was with them, I usually didn't need to look. I dated a girl recently that didn't satisfy me in a lot of ways. I was always looking. Don't know if there's a connection or I just remember more. I find something interesting to look at with most women. All women are different. I like my women lean. I like them thin, but I also think women who work out and have big muscular thighs are to die for. My most memorable sex has been with women who had sixpack abs. Men are visually stimulated. If you look at a beautiful painting long enough, you want to look at other paintings. Doesn't mean you'll take it home, though.

Do you want to turn your partner gay or something?

It is impossible for any sex to not look. They will think other women are sexually attractive as well. But the one thing to understand is when your really in love that he doesn't look at you like a piece of meat like he may with other women. He will look at you for more than that. As your lover and companion. Its surprising but women do the exact same thing as men do they just don't admit it. I am proud to say that i am a women and when dating my ex boyfriend i did see other men they didn't just drop out of the earth. I didn't see them like what i saw in my boyfriend. Understand what i mean?

Cripes. When I am happy and in love, no one else exists and no one looks as wonderfully sexy as my man and, in fact, I get these "blinders" and I just don't look nor need to. I think it's disrespectful to do if you have a partner you say you care about. That is of course, when I am actually in love and my needs are being met. If not, then my eyes wander and my heart may stray.

If any man can do that he must be sexually dead between his ears. And no doubt his tool is out of whack,not working too well either. You got to have a little, sinful lust in your head and heart,and most men would have to agree with me,if they were really honest with themselves. Have an idea that what applies sexually to us men, well,It also applies sexually to women also. I like being a mind, dirty old-man and she also gets a sexual-high out of being a dirty old-woman.

Honestly I don't think anyone is blinded by love!

This is actually another question for all the people who posted answeers what I don't get is, how come I don't even think about sex when I look at men? even if they're naked, unless I have an emotional connection I don't get turned on. I only get turned on by my boyfreind and I honesty feel sick at the idea of nayone else. But I know that he looks at women sexually like any normal guy and that sex is totalyl seperate from love for him. Why can't I separate sex from emotion and men can? I know plenty of women that can as well - is it more nature or nurture? I feel so jelous of any female that he would think about sex with - I feel as though I have to be more beautiful to him than any other girl..or i'd like to go shoot her! I guess I have prblems..but how can I change?????

its almost impossible for a man to never look at another woman again not that he's dieing to get in her pants or anything its just that....... ok men are atracted through their eyes and women through their ears. however it is still possible for him to still be completely wrapped up in their partner, i mean a man will loose interest in the chase but not the looking part i mean there's no crime in looking there is in staring or oggling over women.... so if he looks it just means he's normal if he says he dosnt he's lying..

A man will notice; he may notice twice. A good man will not ogle, and there is the difference. Will another woman matter? She shouldn't matter in the way that you seem to imply. A good faithful man will NOT lose interest because he thinks all other women are UGLY-this is important- he loses interest because, in spite of whatever shortcomings, real or percieved, that you (or he) may think you have, he knows what sort of PERSON is wrapped in your body. That person is someone he's in love with and does not want to hurt, nor does he want to lose the affection that you give him.

.NO!.... even if the lady they are loooking at don't look anywhere near as good as the one they got or they'd never cheat on the one they got ,,,,they still look ,,I know i do ,,,!

of course men look at other woman,the same as we look at other men,but us honest people in loving relationships look at opposite sexes in a different way.if you trust and love each other you wont mind them looking,its natural.

No. Thats what every woman expects of a man but it is not how we are programmed. Men get harrangued all the time by women for not living up to the standards they lay down. We are different. If im with a partner i say stuff like 'do you think that girl is attractive?' Its my way of sharing the fact that i do so that my partner isnt threatened, she would be if she caught me looking secretly. Often she says 'No, how come all the girls you look at are so ugly' then she points at some bloke and says 'now he is handsome' It makes it a non threatening shared experience and a laugh as we take the piss out of each others taste. If someone is covertly looking at others, then that is horrible, secretive and is excluding your partner, which is where the problems start

if u are truely in love then no other woman will be as satisfying as the one u love so yes there will b no other woman

at times i have a passing glance, but i never think that any one else is more attractive and i never long for more than a second, it tends to be my gf looks more than me

Yes, mind where your eyes fall slave!! thats all shes saying

i see a lot of people saying they look, so ok i get it that guys look, but as i was told by couple of other guys, girls are like beautiful paintings or sunsets. or do guys sexually look at all women as *i would Do her* look. if that second answer is it, then I guess I am headed for divorce because If my man look at other women as just for looking its ok but sexual attraction is FOR ME his wife, after all is why he married me. If he is going to be sexually attracted to other women like he wants to (do) them, than he can have them cuz i will simply not accept it. I deserve his loyalty, If he isnt ready for that he can be single

I think it definitely is possible for guys not to look. From experience we (being guys) do tend not to notice other women if they are deeply in love with their partner/significant other.

My first wife would actually point them out for me. All was not bad.

Eye candy is ok for men to look at and women also. Eye cany is just eye enjoyment and nothing more. Look and enjoy, but do not touch.

I haven't met a woman yet that couldn't look at flowers, or babies. We all should admire a beautiful sunset. To appreciate beauty honors the Creator of that beauty. To want to possess it, keep it for ourself, is a perversion. So the looking itself is not the problem, the intention of the look is.