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no not really because they had enough intelligence to have realized that I was trying to protect my child and they went out of their way to attack my child for their own pleasure. In the end, no, I would never forgive that.
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absolutely NO Infact it would take all that I am not to kill them.
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no i could not!! it happened to me as a young child by my uncle. he is dead now he died in prison, which is where he deserved to be.
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Well, I was assaulted by a family member I don't know what my parents views are but I am still raw about it. Nothing was really done about the issue. I was just taken away from her care. I was molested by a friend who lived next to my grandparents. So no I wont be able to forgive such a person, I would go out of my way to make sure that person never gains contact with another child again. Also that that person will get the highest punishment possible! Stealing another persons childhood is something so loathing and awful I wouldn't even wish it to happen to my worst enemy.
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No
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They would be just as dead as a stranger would be.
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fuck no!! that is just WRONG!! i wouldn't forgive ANYONE who would do that to ANYONE!!
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No!
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Never
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If you forgave them your giving them permission to do it to others. They deserve nothing stop forgiving them werethey forgiving when they were abusing a human? NO.
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Yes, but I would do it for myself, not for them. It doesn't mean that it was okay. It simply means I forgive them the pain and hurt and I have moved on and do not hate or harbor resentment. However, they will never be near that child alone again.
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Not in a million years. I think I could easily kill them. I know that's a very bold statement, but when you think about it- 'plead mitigating circumstances, get the charge reduced to culpable homicide, sentenced to 6 years, do 3 years, get on with my life with a clear concience'. Doesn't sound so bad now, does it?
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Hells no
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No, I could never forgive that.
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Depends on your definition of forgive. Could I let go of the anger yes. Would I allow the person arround my child or any child that I was with NO. I was abused myself and I have let go of most of my anger towards that person. But when I have children they will not be around them.
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No, but I would be able to forgive myself for killing them. Someone who harms a child does not deserve to live on.
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Unlikely. VERY unlikely.
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absolutely not in fact it only makes it worse that it is a relative. I couldn't understand how a tranger could do it but a blood relative doing something like that would be such a horrible and sick betrayal I would probably kill them..I know it would upset me worse than if some random stranger did it.
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no
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no, I could not. Treating a child as a sexual object is a behaviour that I cannot understand.
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this is just one of my many reasons for not having children. it would be very hard for me to remain in a civilized state of mind if something like this happened to an offspring of mine. i would be able to go on with life but i would do everything to make sure the molester was punished.
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NO!! I could never forgive that! NEVER!
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No. Not even after i killed him.
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No, but I would kill them with out a second thought.
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Hell to the NO!
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It would be impossible to forgive someone that's dead & I swear after I tortured him, he's die a cruel & painful death
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Absolutely positively NOT!!!
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If I had a child? NEVER! NUNCA! JAMAIS!
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its odd that a question like this one, brings out hatred and murder and torture into the minds of the answerers. you who think like that are no better than the molester. I would forgive. My child probably wouldnt.
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I would absolutely not forgive. I would have to turn that person in. Hopefully they could learn something in jail.
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I work in a treatment facility for very young severely troubled children. Most of them have been sexually abused somewhere along the line. I see thier pain every day. The scars, the sexual habits they learn, the way they interact with other children and adults and the memories (even the things they don't remember; they just know things are not right), cripple thier ability to properly cope with normal day to day routines. I think it would be extremly difficult for anyone to forgive ANYONE (close relative or not)who abuses your child. I personally COULD NOT.I would NEVER trust that person around my child again. I might however, encourage this close relative (can't do much about strangers) to get help which this person obviously needs. He/she obviously has some underlying issues (possibly having been abused himself)that need intensive treatment. Someone elses child will be next. This whole issue saddens me deeply. Sexual abuse on children is running rampid.
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absolutely not. i couldn't stand it. anytime the child looked sad, i would think of what that close relative had done and how the child would be HAUNTED FOR LIFE.
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This would be very difficult for me. My religion teaches me in order to be forgiven, I must forgive. But my first response would be NO!
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Regardless of relation a molester is a molester, therefore absolutely not, I wouldn't show quarter to any relative in this regard.
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it would be hard i imagine but it would depend on how many times and the age of the child 15 is not molesting if you are 18 in my opinion 8 year old with a 35 year old then through the water on em!(or in the water) if it was something that happened over and over and over then maybe not but i am sure someone would
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No. You can't forgive someone who does that sort of thing. Somethings are just wrong and this is wrong ... in any and all ways.
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No, never.
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My child? Definitely no.
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NO WAY!!! My children are the most important in my life, they are my life. I couldn't even forgive a close relative for molesting any child.
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No Way!!! i cant forgive anyone hurting my kids.
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Never. Especially since it was done to me by a close relative.
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no way. My neice molested my son 14 years ago and to this day I still haven't forgiven her and I probably never will. She took away my son's purity, and innocence and ruined the rest of his life. She recieved no punishement but my son will be punished the rest of his life. so I will go to my grave hating her and I will NEVER forgive her
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no way. They didnt respect you or your child
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What do you mean by forgive? If you are asking if I would call the police or not, I would call the police no matter who they were, without exception. In my heart I could forgive but would never go around or allow my child to be around the person ever again after they got out of jail, ever.
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Hell no!
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no its is out of the question. They are all sick in the head.. and should be sent to prison for life
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No, I couldn't forgive anyone for molesting my child or any other child I knew.
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I would find it extremely difficult. My belief in God tells me the right thing to do would be to forgive.....but wow..for someone to hurt my child?
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Umm, No!
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Hell no.
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Sure right after I killed them.
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i would only forgive this man if he is trully asking for your heart filled forgivness. you have to know that the man who did this to your child is obviously very sick and was almost deffinatly abused or molested himself, and is living in a horrible horrible world as it is.your forgivness could verywell send him on the right path but of course, only you can decide.
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never. there is nothing worse in life than an adult forcing their sick and depraved desires on an innocent child, it makes me so mad, finish them off as far as im concerned.
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Absolutely not,this is one I'd have to leave for God to forgive.I do not think their punishment is harsh enough!They've stolen so much from the children,innocence,trust,and so much more. I give so much credit to anyone who has gone through this and come out the other side.My Dad was molested by a priest when he was 5 and I believe it's the reason he is unable to be affectionate with his kids or grandkids& drinks to numb his pain.In a way his life was stolen...
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no way
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never ever! how could you forgive somebody who had hurt your own flesh and blood physically and emotionally and also made your child never forget something so hurtful and disgusting?
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Hell no. My step niece molested my son and my brother and sister in law knew it was happening for over a year allowed it to happen. They can all 3 burn in Hell. I will NEVER forgive them.
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OMG, As someone who was raped by her own father HELL NO! Do you even understand what that does to a child? God how could you even second guess that? Im about to have a baby any min now and if i found out anybody, doesnt matter how long ive know then or how close we were i could never forgive someone for doing that to my child!
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It's an unforgivable act...
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Not even after I kill um.
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Never
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never i would love to see him or her go to hell
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Never. They would be dead the moment I found them. Doesn't matter who it was, or how close of a relation. I would have no faith in the system to punish them properly. Molesting a kid can completely screw them up for the rest of their lives, and that is unforgivable.You DO NOT mess with kids!!!
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I was molested by my father. I never forgave him and I distanced myself from him to the day he died so why would I forgive a close or distant relative from molesting my child. When a close friend of mine molested my granddaughter, I helped put him in jail. To this day, I have never forgiven him and I don't socialize with him at all anymore. To molest a friend's or relative's child or grandchild is gross because it betrays a trust. This also applies when a parent molests his or her own child.
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Thanks Dahn! (Whoops! Wrote a comment in the answer box. Sorry!)
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no ... but i'd get put away for life for killing them slowly and painfully
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Once they are dead the healing will begin.
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it is honestly bst 2 forgive but it can b really hard somtimes even if it is that bad of a thing
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Lets hope I never have to find out.
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Never yo...
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No i could not it dosent make it any different because its your family ,its disgusting and very very wrong who ever is doing it, i would want them to rot in hell
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NEVER NEVER NEVER....actually they shouldn't want my forgiveness or to ever be in the same room with me again. I would rip them to shreds.
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after i shot em
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I would never speak to that relative again, and they would have no contact with my child ever, ever again. Taking sexual advantage over a child, especially if it were my child, is one thing that I wouldn't find it in my heart to forgive someone for. And I wouldn't care which relative it was, I would press charges and send them to prison.
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HELL FUCK NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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only if your an inbreed idiot
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HELL NO
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Hell no. And I hope no one would. Because it will happen again.
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depends what kinda molest you mean my cousin has been molested 12 times and has 3 kids lol jk
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I cannot say that I could. The child is marked for life!
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WTF NO. thats probably the worst thing a person can do, especially your own child. delete them from your life and don't call them family.
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No, thats my child and you touch any of my children I will beat the CRAP out of you....muahaha. Well, maybe I could if they got help.
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It would depend on the circumstances, age of the child, whether there was true coercion, whether the child was physically harmed, and what the child's attitude was toward the offender. A non-specific word like "molestation" covers a lot of possible situations.
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Absolutely not. I wouldn't forgive anyone for molesting my child.
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absolutely not
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After the castration heals maybe.
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Not easily!
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No.
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As i have never (thankfully) had to deal with this before i would like to say that i would forgive them but honestly i doubt i could. Robbing a child of their innocence is the worst thing anyone could do to a child. Being a relative makes it worst. Hope you sort out this problem. (Let them rot in jail)
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Even though god says for everyone to forgive and forget, i don't think i could ever forgive someone for that. Its not right for people to do that, they say they do it because the child urges them but really its their fault because they had the choice.
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no!
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I could forgive NO ONE for molesting my child.
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Nope, but since they are a close relative, I might let them live.
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I wouldn't forgive anyone for molesting my child. As a matter of fact, they'd be buried in the back yard.
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NO. you have to put yourself in the childs shoes: imagine if you were the child for a minute, and your mom or dad forgave the person, you would feel kind of bad and betrayed wouldn't you? And even if you forgave the person, you'd still be upset deep down, wouldn't you? so, no, don't forgive them
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I would not allow the person arround my child or any child
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Depending on the circumstances, absolutely yes. I was raped as a 9-year-old boy at a private "church school" my parents sent me to. It took me 24 years to even BEGIN to deal with it - to even start accurately remembering it! However, looking back, I can sort out who these guys were and remember what their lives were like and I can empathize. What they did was WRONG - PERIOD. However, I can understand that they were crazy, mixed up kids and in desperate need of help. Then there were the adults... (Once victimized as a child, you seem to have a target on you for others). Could I forgive them? Probably, if they had the decency to own up to it and deal with it and ask. Stuff happens all over the place all the time. We cannot fix that. We can, however, gain control over our lives and move forward in life, learning how to protect ourselves and our children. Personally, I think the best way to do that is to heal our own wounds and be willing to help others heal theirs.
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Not on your nelly! Childs are no games and playing with them is absolutely disgusting!
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Yes, I could forgive him. I could let go of the anger and all of the baggage. But forgiveness is different than trust. I would NEVER let mine or any child in my care anywhere near them. It's bad enough going through the growing up process - going through it with things like that on your memory steal that precious time of innocence, and it is extremely difficult if not impossible to get it back once it has been lost.
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absolutly not
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